Divorce is in the air (wife caught me looking at porn)

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_why me
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Re: Divorce is in the air (wife caught me looking at porn)

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Dr. Shades wrote:Abaddon:

Baker:

The pornographic arts are one of the greatest gifts that God has given us, to be partaken of in the spirit of joy and thanksgiving.


Unless the site gives you a virus, spyware or malware. And it will happen.

However, perhaps you can ask the women involved in the business just what they think.
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Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:Oh, for f***'s sake. It's like I'm talking to a child.


From this end, you sound like a teenage boy.

The urge to replicate is encoded in most everyone.


Agreed. Even in gays and lesbians. Even in old people. But there are times when it is neither possible nor optimal. Times like... when the wife has a life-threatening illness and is unable to perform... unless you're saying the man is excused from his marriage vows when his wife is dying? Or when distance separates spouses, like when the man is sent off to war for months... or are you saying he's not expected to keep his marriage vows because his wife isn't there to relieve him?

Because if the husband of the dying wife can control his sex drive, and the soldier stationed in a war zone for months can control his sex drive, then so can any other man.
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why me wrote:However, perhaps you can ask the women involved in the business just what they think.


I don't know about porn, but I've read articles before about lap dancers, that totally paid for doctorates in a few short years of dancing.

Some women who started out in porn moved on to good tv/movie status.
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Dr. Shades wrote:
Redefined wrote:Well, what if the woman is the one initiating sex. . . almost everyday, maybe even twice a day. . .

Will you marry me?

Are You certain that Redefined is a she?

In other case you can find yourself in a deep problem.
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harmony wrote:Because if the husband of the dying wife can control his sex drive, and the soldier stationed in a war zone for months can control his sex drive, then so can any other man.


Uh. Soldiers stationed in war zones don't control their sex drives. They watch pornography every chance they get. They hook up with females every chance they get (and in mose cases the truth is the same reversed). You better believe they're rubbing one out every chance they get. Their sex drives aren't controlled; they're managed... Just like in ordinary life.
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ludwigm wrote:
Dr. Shades wrote:Will you marry me?

Are You certain that Redefined is a she?

In other case you can find yourself in a deep problem.
(...back-door intent...)

Maybe Dr. Shades really is the Chinese actress woman. In any case, it's all good.
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So a man is supposed to control his sexual urges when his wife does not want to have sex, but a woman is not supposed to get herself in the mood more often to express physical love for her husband?

One wonders, if a lot of guys look at porn to make up for a lack of sex is their wives aren't interested in sex that often then maybe the wrong spouse is looking at the porn.
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Remember that women are more sexually responsive to verbal porn, while men are more responsive to visual porn. Maybe the woman in question needs to pick up some steamy romance novels.
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Abaddon wrote:
Black Moclips wrote:Simple question,

Is jacking off to porn worth losing your wife and wrecking your family?


Simple question,

Are you a dumb ass?

Why not ask this: wife are you willing to wreck your family and divorce your husband because he looks at porn once in a while?


I will take that as a "yes" to my question. That must be some really great porn you have there. I'm sure there are a few folks here that would appreciate a link, lol.
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Abaddon wrote:Why not ask this: wife are you willing to wreck your family and divorce your husband because he looks at porn once in a while?

Well at least something better than WoW violations has ranked right up there as cause for Spiritual Infidelity divorce.
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