mfbukowski wrote:
So the central insight is this: WHY PRETEND THAT THERE IS SOMETHING OUT THERE THAT WE CANNOT SEE OR EXPERIENCE- WHY NOT JUST BE HONEST AND TALK ABOUT WHAT WE CAN TALK ABOUT- THE EXPERIENCE OF EXPERIENCING.
We don't pretend. New things are experienced all the time suggesting that there is something out there beyond our current expereinces or current ability to expereince pr perceive. Now the idea that there is something out there beyond our ability to perceive or expereince now or ever does not come science but from many religious ideas.
And I would maintain that is precisely what science does. "When I add this amount of what we define as "sodium" to this amount of what we define as "chlorine" I always get this amount of what we define as "sodium chloride" which is also known as "salt".
Science deals with what it can experience, but good scientists are always aware that there are most likely things beyond our expereinces, which is vital to the scientific en-devour. If not we would have far less discovery's today.
But there are also private experiences no one else shares, like what I dreamed last night, who I am falling in love with, what I am thinking, why I don't like that guy, etc.
Private expereinces are shareable at least to some degree.
All of these factors are based "subjective" experience that no one knows but each of us individually- and indeed it is in a state of subjectivity that we live our lives.
Not really. many private expereinces are knowable to some degree. I see a child with a skinned knee I know to some degree what they are going through having gone through it myself on more then one occasion.
I would also maintain that this is where we also find religious belief and what we as Mormons call "testimony".
Remember you are talking to Mormons here, even if some of us Mormon do not believe all of the Churches claims.
And I would say that the way we "know what's right for us"- is ultimately by the same criteria we use in the "objective" world- that is, "what works". Only we can know what works for us- what gives us what we need to get through the trials of life, who to love, what school to go to, who to marry, whether or not I should become a pilot or a professor or a farmer.
One method is very objective and reliable and the other is not for many different reasons. I'm sure there are many drug addicts who know what is right for them, and if it was not for some who said they knew better what is right for them they would be dead now. I know a girl who thought she knew what was best for her when she married a friend of mine. I didn't know her so I never said anything, but got to know her after she was divorced. She wishes someone had told her so she could have had better information to make these decisions about. The same with the church. Just because someone believes soemthing is best for them or is the best thing to make them happy or successful does not mean it is, and yes many times others may know better.
All of those are subjective decisions to be made and defined subjectively by the criteria of "what works"
One of the reasons that in many cases it does not work even though one may think it does. Would you have interfered with the heavens gate people saving there lives even though they though they believed what they were doing was best for them and their future happiness aboard that alien ship?
Arguably, another cheap shot.
I think that is an incorrect and unfair. Runtu was expressing his opinion even though you may disagree with it he never meant it as a cheap shot and I think you may know that. Obedience is harped on even though the church will not force it on non-members, it does on it's member if they want to stay members. It's not the first time you have made declarations of what the church is that others like Darth have shown is incorrect with evidence. I understand you like many NOM's see the church differently and as long as you keep quiet about some things you wont get into trouble.
I'm sorry if you did not understand that as an 8 year old. My son did before he was 9 and was not baptized until he was ready, and the same with my daughters, but they felt "ready" earlier.
Now this is a cheap shot.