wenglund wrote:Hi Runtu,
Perhaps I should have bolded the important qualifier "some former members" so that you wouldn't mistakenly assume that I was necessarily talking about you or even all former believers.
I didn't assume you were talking about me, but the way you worded it was a pretty broad slam against everyone and anyone who has ever stopped believing in Mormonism. Surely, you recognize that.
And, perhaps I could have taken greater pains in clarifying that I was only referring to when "some former members" presume to know better than me about my beliefs and about what works in relation to my belief, and this so that you wouldn't think I was making a sweeping comment about all behaviors of all former believers.
But you didn't make that qualifier. Who in particular said they knew your faith better than you do? I haven't seen that.
Also, I could have stated my point in a less potentially controversial manner.
Most definitely you could have, but you chose not to.
It is just that having repeatedly made the point in kinder and gentler terms over the many years participating here, though with little or no success in some cases; and given that the telestial forum is flooded with rancor and sarcasm and ridicule (directed mostly at my faith), I though a bit of light-hearted witticism would prove more effective in making my point, particularly in a way that better fits the culture there.
I can't imagine anyone taking that as light-hearted witticism. Sorry.
So, you can imagine my surprise when it deeply aggitated people's sensibilities.
It shouldn't have surprised you, unless you really are that unaware of how such a statement will usually be taken.
But, hopefully now that I have clarified things, and people hopefully better understand my real intent and meaning, the shattered pieces of their lives can now be put together so as to get these good people back to the polite business mocking and criticizing the Church, and bring to an end this relatively insignificant meta-discussion.
Thanks, -Wade Englund-
And there you have it. As I said, every single time I try to give you the benefit of the doubt, you come back with a slam, like this last paragraph. Does saying things like that make you feel better?
And whoever is moderating, this last post needs to be moved to the Terrestrial forum, where it belongs.