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NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 4:02 am
by _Aristotle Smith
I heard this guy's story a few years back, but I had no idea there was a peripheral Mormon connection.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/19/magaz ... wanted=allThe Mormon connection is about 1/2 the way through the article.
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 2:26 pm
by _Buffalo
"Ex-gay" = closeted, self-loathing gay
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 3:19 pm
by _just me
Buffalo wrote:"Ex-gay" = closeted, self-loathing gay
Or maybe more towards the middle of the Kinsey scale?
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 3:43 pm
by _Buffalo
just me wrote:Buffalo wrote:"Ex-gay" = closeted, self-loathing gay
Or maybe more towards the middle of the Kinsey scale?
You mean bisexual?
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 5:03 pm
by _just me
Buffalo wrote:just me wrote:Or maybe more towards the middle of the Kinsey scale?
You mean bisexual?
Yeah. I mean, you are right. They would still be denying a part of themselves. I have bisexual friends who are in heterosexual relationships, but don't deny their attraction to the same sex.
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 6:49 pm
by _lostindc
Good article. I feel bad for Mike. He seems very confused. It sounds like he was happier as an activist for the gay community. Now he is full of anger.
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 6:54 pm
by _Aristotle Smith
lostindc wrote:Good article. I feel bad for Mike. He seems very confused. It sounds like he was happier as an activist for the gay community. Now he is full of anger.
Do you realize that most active LDS members would take one look at this board and conclude the same thing?
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 6:59 pm
by _lostindc
Aristotle Smith wrote:lostindc wrote:Good article. I feel bad for Mike. He seems very confused. It sounds like he was happier as an activist for the gay community. Now he is full of anger.
Do you realize that most active LDS members would take one look at this board and conclude the same thing?
I am afraid you are right. I thought the same when I was a TBM.
Re: NYT - My Ex-Gay Friend
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 7:02 pm
by _Molok
Looks like he went from being an extreme activist to an extreme fundamentalist (or is that redundant?) I've seen that happen with some people I went to college with. Some folks just give 110% no matter what they're doing, I guess.