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Soaking (a creative substitute for sex). I was listening to TMZ the other day on Sirius Radio and they were talking about Soaking.

I hadn't heard of it but they said that BYU student would Soak as a substitute for sex. They then defined soaking as when a man puts his sausage in the oven and lets it marinate without moving it.

After I finished laughing, my first thought was not to believe it. I went to BYU and although I did get into some petting situations, it was hard to move my female companions much beyond second base without guilt coming in.

Then some students admitted that soaking does happen on the campus now and that they didn't view it as sexual intercouse because neither partner was moving once penetration was made.

A few BYU students from my generation (early 90's) did call in to say that back in their day they resorted to hand jobs to avoid sex and that was considered not crossing the line to getting married in the temple.

Anyway wondering if anyone else heard the TMZ show or know about Soaking from your associations in the church?

Never heard of anything like that. The longer I'm out of the church, the more I realize that my total abstinence before marriage without even coming close to sex was an exception to the norm.

DaKing wrote:Soaking (a creative substitute for sex). I was listening to TMZ the other day on Sirius Radio and they were talking about Soaking.

I hadn't heard of it but they said that BYU student would Soak as a substitute for sex. They then defined soaking as when a man puts his sausage in the oven and lets it marinate without moving it.

After I finished laughing, my first thought was not to believe it. I went to BYU and although I did get into some petting situations, it was hard to move my female companions much beyond second base without guilt coming in.

Then some students admitted that soaking does happen on the campus now and that they didn't view it as sexual intercouse because neither partner was moving once penetration was made.

A few BYU students from my generation (early 90's) did call in to say that back in their day they resorted to hand jobs to avoid sex and that was considered not crossing the line to getting married in the temple.

Anyway wondering if anyone else heard the TMZ show or know about Soaking from your associations in the church?

If I remember correctly, Zee has some interesting stories about "soaking" at BYU. Liz might also have some stories.

DaKing wrote:I went to BYU and although I did get into some petting situations, it was hard to move my female companions much beyond second base without guilt coming in.

Guilt for you, or guilt for her?

Hahaha! Man, the things I wish I did at BYU! I never soaked or marinated or tenderized or anything! Although, I did try the burrito once. That's where you pretend you are marinated chicken and the girl pretends she is slightly cooked strips of bell pepper then you wrap up together in a soft shell blanket. Oh how sweet it was! And oh how painful it was later on as I thought about blue golf balls.

zeezrom wrote:Hahaha! Man, the things I wish I did at BYU! I never soaked or marinated or tenderized or anything! Although, I did try the burrito once. That's where you pretend you are marinated chicken and the girl pretends she is slightly cooked strips of bell pepper then you wrap up together in a soft shell blanket. Oh how sweet it was! And oh how painful it was later on as I thought about blue golf balls.

Dammit, I never did anything remotely close to that. I guess I lived a rather sheltered life.

zeezrom wrote:Hahaha! Man, the things I wish I did at BYU! I never soaked or marinated or tenderized or anything! Although, I did try the burrito once. That's where you pretend you are marinated chicken and the girl pretends she is slightly cooked strips of bell pepper then you wrap up together in a soft shell blanket. Oh how sweet it was! And oh how painful it was later on as I thought about blue golf balls.

I never tried the "burrito", but I did try the Gordita once. That's where you make a corn cake and stuff it with pork, chorizo sausage and top it with a dab of sour cream (if you know what I mean). BYU was great!

Everybody Wang Chung wrote:I never tried the "burrito", but I did try the Gordita once. That's where you make a corn cake and stuff it with pork, chorizo sausage and top it with a dab of sour cream (if you know what I mean). BYU was great!

LOL. Let me guess. The sausage is your bicep, the pork is your upturned eyebrow, and the sour cream is her quivering lips?

zeezrom wrote:

Everybody Wang Chung wrote:I never tried the "burrito", but I did try the Gordita once. That's where you make a corn cake and stuff it with pork, chorizo sausage and top it with a dab of sour cream (if you know what I mean). BYU was great!

LOL. Let me guess. The sausage is your bicep, the pork is your upturned eyebrow, and the sour cream is her quivering lips?

You've obviously had a Gordita before!

Everybody Wang Chung wrote:You've obviously had a Gordita before!

They used to have pretty good Navajo Tacos at the CougarEat. I'm sure if I tried hard enough, I could make that into a sexual metaphor. LOL