beastie wrote:Do you really feel like you've been targeted for a gang beating? Seriously? Why?
That was probably not a good choice of words on my part. It's not so much a "beating" as it is a kind of "group-enforced orthodoxy".
I hope you will respond to my question about whether or not you would at least agree that Will's behavior was offensive.
What behavior?
You see, that's the real question here. From what I can tell, it's the question implicit in the OP, too. The most offensive things Will is accused of saying are the things he has denied having said. Is he lying about those things? He very well could be. I don't know for sure. But even if he is, we're talking about
three things he said in ..........
how many years?No, I don't think making fairly innocuous jokes about breast reduction surgery and cleavage are all that offensive.
Should I? Well, according to the consensus of opinion here, I guess I should. And by God, if I don't then I will be subjected to a kind of subtle "group punishment" (as Carton termed it
here) until I "get my mind right" (I love
Cool Hand Luke. Paul Newman was such a gorgeous hunk of man!).
Let me emphasize my main point again: I have serious objections to Will and his apologetics, but I think it is a big mistake by not keeping the discussion focused on his arguments instead of his allegedly being a misogynist, a "sexist pig", etc.
I admit I'm probably a little biased in the sense that, unlike most or all of the people here, I have known him in real life. I don't agree with his views on Mormonism, but I also don't believe he is a misogynist or a sexist pig. His daughter that I got to know when I was a YW leader in the ward was one of the most impressive young women I have come across. She would stand up, in class, against any YW leaders who would say things about how the girls' highest aspiration should be to have ten kids and keep the house clean and have dinner waiting on the table for when their husbands returned home from work, etc. That takes guts.
Will also was the one who introduced me to the writing of
Camille Paglia, and now I'm a very devoted fan of hers. (Will actually quoted her in Gospel Doctrine class one day, but didn't tell anyone that he was citing a liberal lesbian feminist!
)
Anyway, in many ways, he can be an arrogant, too-much-self-assured asshole. And I think he is bat**** crazy when it comes to most of his religious beliefs. But I don't think he's a misogynistic, sexist pig. And I don't agree that the "evidence" that MsJack assembled in her misogyny thread demonstrates otherwise.
OK, now I really will say no more on this topic. I think I'm going to take a break from this place for a week or two. I have loved participating here and I have lots of respect for a good many of you. I think this is the most intellectually stimulating Mormon-related message board on the internet. I don't think there is any doubt that the level of education, advanced degrees, etc., is higher on this board than any of the others I have seen. However, I also think that this place can sometimes tend to enforce their own brand of political correctness and God help the person who violates the PC-code that has been established here!