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Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 4:48 pm
by _sock puppet
Sethbag here gives a little 'sympathy for the devil', i.e., pleads Scott Gordon's case for ratting out David Twede, new editor of MormonThink:
Sethbag wrote:
Kishkumen wrote:Uh, the crucial difference here is that Gordon allegedly forwarded materials regarding Twede to Salt Lake City with the specific purpose of initiating church disciplinary action against him. I don't recall that any of us have played police detective and snitch in that way. So, fine. But then to deny it? OK, we understand that the apologists want to police the internet on behalf of the LDS Church, but they should at least own up to their online Danitism when they are put on the record admitting to it.
If Brother Gordon did exactly as you say, what is the problem? From his point of view, Brother Twede is engaged in endangering peoples' eternal salvation. From Gordon's perspective, if he doesn't act to defend the flock against this wolf, there are people who literally might not make it to the Celestial Kingdom who otherwise would. And to Gordon, he is his brother's keeper.

If you believed this, and you were in Gordon's shoes, don't you think you might look at the matter a little differently? We see it one way, but to Gordon, souls are on the line.


Sethbag makes the point (whether he correctly appreciated what Kishkumen was saying or not) that from the TBM's perspective, Gordon's LDS believing perspective, Gordon did the 'correct' thing. After all, as Sethbag points out, if you believe LDS dogma, then there were 'souls ... on the line.' The TBM not only sympathizes as does Sethbag, but the TBM applauds Gordon's courage to do the 'right thing.'

Turning the tables. I as a disbeliever think that the LDS dogma to be false and that it is used to deceive people, particularly young, impressionable people, into making decisions and doing things that they would not if they weren't being fed these lies. When I post and give warning of what I believe to be Mormonism's lies, I too am doing so out of noble concern for others, to save people from the LDS dogma and the wasting of time and aspects of their lives on lies.

So, to the critic, Gordon is a despicable snitch though his actions are consistent with a concern for the 'souls' of others. Just as to the TBM, I am a despicable anti-Mormon though my actions are consistent with a concern for others too.

I think Sethbag served up an important reminder on MDB, where the majority of posters are NOMs and critics, that from Gordon's perspective, his 'snitching' could have been done out of genuine concern for others, for the souls of those who might visit MormonThink and stop their LDS activity by reason of it.

But here's one critical difference for me. Gordon can only succeed in his charitable act to save other souls if the outcome of Twede's disciplinary action is to cause him to disengage from MormonThink activity, to stop historical facts from being disclosed to other LDS. That is only necessary because the LDS Church itself continues to perpetuate its lies, its whitewashed, correlated narrative of historical facts of JSJr and early Mormonism. If the LDS Church were not so bent on providing only a slanted view, with gaping holes of historical accuracy, Twede--if his motive is to lure LDS out of the Church--would be deprived of the most effective tool to do so.

By and large from my experience, critics are not troubled by those that know the facts and yet remain active TBMs (though such is an enigma), but are motivated to try to disseminate the historical information missing from the official LDS narratives, so that those facing LDS decisions may do so fully informed.

It seems to me that while within the LDS theological construct, Gordon may have had pure, genuine motivations, concerned for the 'souls' of other LDS, the problem stems from the fact that the LDS Church has been in the business for well over 150 years of providing a slanted view, and not wanting members, investigators and observers to hear all the facts. And there seems to be no hint that the LDS Church is wavering from continuing on the path of this institutional deception.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 5:38 pm
by _Yahoo Bot
sock puppet wrote:
So, to the critic, Gordon is a despicable snitch though his actions are consistent with a concern for the 'souls' of others. Just as to the TBM, I am a despicable anti-Mormon though my actions are consistent with a concern for others too.


Who gives a flying crap, really. I've had posters HERE contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more. But maybe i exaggerate proximate cause.) I've had one poster contact the state bar and my partners to damage me professionally. (That didn't work.) There was no outrage, no expressions of concern here, except to call me a liar.

Let's not bust a gasket over how terrible Scott Gordon is when the posters here do far more terrible damage. Perhaps we should give him the benefit of the doubt until Mr. Tweedle Dee responds here.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 5:55 pm
by _Kishkumen
Yahoo Bot wrote:Who gives a flying crap, really. I've had posters contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more.) I've had one poster contact the state bar and my partners to damage me professionally. (That didn't work.) There was no outrage, no expressions of concern here, except to call me a liar.

Let's not bust a gasket over how terrible Scott Gordon is when the posters here do far more terrible damage. Perhaps we should give him the benefit of the doubt until Mr. Tweedle Dee responds here.


I give a crap.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 5:56 pm
by _The Erotic Apologist
Yahoo Bot wrote:I've had posters contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more.)


Fascinating. Please, tell us more.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 6:08 pm
by _sock puppet
Yahoo Bot wrote:I've had posters contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more.) I've had one poster contact the state bar and my partners to damage me professionally. (That didn't work.)

I doubt that you want to dredge up the details of those two situations and air them out here, but maybe you do. If so, and your situation is sympathetic, then I suspect that you will get expressions of outrage in your favor.

Right now, the details of the Twede-Gordon matter are unfolding and I think some do care.

But the point of the post is that when people with so fundamentally different perspectives on a topic discuss it, the fact that they may each be acting nobly, with genuine interests for others but the posters' perspectives and purposes, noble as each may be, are so diametrically contrary to one another, each will view the other with suspicion.

In the context of a TBM reporting to Church authorities another member for having disseminated information, that is a problem only made possible until the Church comes clean and includes the entire historical record in its correlated narrative on JSJr and early Church history.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 6:35 pm
by _aranyborju
Yahoo Bot wrote: I've had posters HERE contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more. But maybe i exaggerate proximate cause.)


Dear Brother Yahoo Bot,

Based on allegations of misbehavior on an Anti-Mormon message board that have been brought to our attention by a woman identifying herself as "Palsgraf," your calling as a guard for the Long Island Railroad company is hereby revoked.

XOXO,

President Cardozo

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 6:40 pm
by _Yahoo Bot
aranyborju wrote:
Yahoo Bot wrote: I've had posters HERE contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more. But maybe i exaggerate proximate cause.)


Dear Brother Yahoo Bot,

Based on allegations of misbehavior on an Anti-Mormon message board that have been brought to our attention by a woman identifying herself as "Palsgraf," your calling as a guard for the Long Island Railroad company is hereby revoked.

XOXO,

President Cardozo



Thanks. Actually, I'm happy not to have a church calling any more. Time to spend my days noodling over the scriptures. Or watching my Family Guy files, whichever.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 7:30 pm
by _gramps
aranyborju wrote:
Yahoo Bot wrote: I've had posters HERE contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more. But maybe i exaggerate proximate cause.)


Dear Brother Yahoo Bot,

Based on allegations of misbehavior on an Anti-Mormon message board that have been brought to our attention by a woman identifying herself as "Palsgraf," your calling as a guard for the Long Island Railroad company is hereby revoked.

XOXO,

President Cardozo


LOL (read about Helen Palsgraf here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palsgraf_v._Long_Island_Railroad_Co. if you don't get the gist of aranyborju's post.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 7:54 pm
by _Bob Loblaw
Yahoo Bot wrote:Who gives a flying crap, really. I've had posters HERE contact my stake president to get me released from my church calling. (It worked. I don't have one any more. But maybe i exaggerate proximate cause.) I've had one poster contact the state bar and my partners to damage me professionally. (That didn't work.) There was no outrage, no expressions of concern here, except to call me a liar.

Let's not bust a gasket over how terrible Scott Gordon is when the posters here do far more terrible damage. Perhaps we should give him the benefit of the doubt until Mr. Tweedle Dee responds here.


That's pretty awful, Bot. I'm sorry people have done that to you. It's unacceptable whoever does it.

Re: Dialogue between TBMs and Critics

Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 8:07 pm
by _Infymus
Sock, with what Kishkumen said and with what Sethbag said - it immediately made me think of the "White Shirt" directive. Members who did not wear a white shirt were set upon by other ward members to obey. Perhaps Gordon put on his strippling warrior costume early this year.

I think Gordon's an ass and he did it deliberately. But truth be told, Gordon should be hauled in for posting things that are not directly in the Cult curriculum. If you haven't seen anything about the head in the hat on Mormon.org in the last decade - you sure better not see it on FAIR, otherwise, that's not faith promoting and could cause a member to question their faith. Better to take the Cult's position and deny they ever taught it, or that it was a little fleck of history, etc, etc.