Kishkumen wrote:The Dude wrote:If you found out your marriage councilor had been divorced four times you might consider his advice in a different light. Maybe as coming from someone with a lot of experience but not a great deal of wisdom.
LOL. Wow.
Yeah, that totally works.
If my money manager was able to make me millions, but then he lost all of his money on the market, I would have to conclude that he totally sucked at his job. If I found out that the professor who taught me criminal law sucked at practicing law, although I ended up being a great lawyer thanks in part to her teaching, I would have to say she sucked as a teacher because she didn't make it as a lawyer.
I totally see that now. Thanks for that.
The Dude wrote:Oh, I see. You're saying after the fact, if you discovered the marriage councilor was a serial divorcee, it would be pointless to reconsider his wisdom, since he has already brought you into marital bliss.
What I meant was if you were shopping around and you found a marriage councilor who was a serial divorcee. Then what? Totally blow it off or keep shopping? That's what I'm talking about.
Well, before you keep shopping, you should self induce a positive emotion through prolonged, ardent meditation and accept others' suggested interpretation about whether the emotion means you should nevertheless use this councilor or not--oh, and don't forget, don't question these others' sincerity, they might really think 'God' is telling them to tell you.
But, hey, thinking for yourself is an option, but of course "it is of the devil"--but remember, you must respect them despite the fact they disrespect you.