maklelan wrote:You obviously had rare and horrible circumstances surrounding your mission, but that's not at all the way it is these days.
Again, I have no doubt that the church trains people to do the right thing, but I don't know how anyone can guarantee that the right thing actually happens.
I know, I am jaded by some pretty bad experiences, but I have learned in my lifetime that, just because there's a written procedure for something, it doesn't mean that's what happens.
In places where there are no phones, for example, which was the case in most of my mission, there's no way you could check in on missionaries every night. I once went 3 months without speaking to any missionary other than my companion. And if missionaries weren't allowed into bad neighborhoods, almost half of La Paz would have been out of bounds.
I don't mean to sound cynical, but I would guess that mission presidents and missionaries in certain parts of the world have to bend the rules as they see fit because the rules you describe simply aren't feasible everywhere.