SteelHead wrote:Yes mak, because being robbed at gunpoint and knowing of several other missionaries who were robbed at gunpoint is just a made up factoid.
There's a difference between missionaries being occasionally robbed at gunpoint and "assault" being "likely."
SteelHead wrote:Because thieves never removed the tile roof off of our homes threw all of our posessions into our luggage, leaving us with nothing but the clothes on our backs. Because missionaries weren't routinely relieved of their watches on the bus. Life in the favelas and slums of south america is peachy keen and nice, and god protects his missionaries.
I understand that you would like to brag about how much you suffered as a missionary, but would you mind answering my question about when and where you served? Things have changed quite a bit in the last couple decades, but at the same time, if missionaries are still wearing watches on buses despite being "relieved" of them just once, much less "routinely," then that's just negligence on the part of the missionaries.
SteelHead wrote:The mission president in Guatemala that was car jacked and robbed and left at the side of the road..... never happened. The one in 94, not the more recent one in 2010.
Two carjackings separated by 16 years? Hopefully we cross checked the data, because that sounds like a pretty troubling pattern. I had a friend in my neighborhood in Boulder during high school who was carjacked more times than that during the course of high school. Maybe you need to email his parents and chew them out for endangering their son by letting him live in Boulder, CO.
SteelHead wrote:The living conditions of missionaries in some of Mexico, Brazil and Argentina, most of Peru, Guatemala, and Bolivia, and most of Africa is risky at best, negligent at worst.
I know returned missionaries, members, and current colleagues from all these areas (one was in Ghana last month and is currently traveling from the jungles of Guatemala to Nepal), and that's simply not true. It's not a middle-class American living, but they don't take risks with bad areas. You may have heard the occasional horror story, but that hardly indicates a pattern.
SteelHead wrote:Looking back I have the feeling our mission president was under orders to economize,
By telling his missionaries not to spend money from home?
SteelHead wrote:as he was purging out the nicer dwellings, got rid of stoves and refrigerators, but he did allow blenders.
How long ago was this?
SteelHead wrote:And yes Mak, those missionaries who developed esoteric illnesses and parasites that impact them the rest of their lives most likely would have got them had they stayed home.
So now you're not talking about mental health, but just "esoteric illnesses and parasites"? Have you abandoned the notion that missions habitually scar missionaries emotionally, and are now just hoping to capitalize on the few missionaries who suffer long term health issues from parasites and "esoteric illnesses." I guess you can't really stack up enough of the former to challenge the hundreds of thousands of missionaries who see their missions as the defining and most character-building events of their early lives. Your rhetoric is having to be twisted into unrecognizable shape just to maintain support of your claims. By all means, continue to try to sound condescending and confident. Certainly you're fooling someone out there.
SteelHead wrote:Those who develop PTSD from their experiences in the slums, well they were predisposed any way.
Ah, here come the claims of emotional damage. I'd love to see your documentation of this. I served in cantegriles in multiple areas in Montevideo, along with dozens of other missionaries from my time in the country. I keep up with most of them, and so far not a one has reported any PTSD symptoms of any kind, even the ones who got robbed (and the one who got an infection on his face that swelled up to the size of a baseball). Of course, they may just be keeping it all a secret from everyone but you.
SteelHead wrote:Get real.
Ha.
[quote="SteelHead"]ETA
Would I say I loved my mission.... yes. What does that prove? Nothing. The reality is the majority of Mormon mission work is self serving. The peace corp focuses in helping people have access to the basic necessities, the lds church focuses on converts.
There are plenty of service missionaries out there, and service hours for proselytizing missionaries are being increased currently. I tried to focus as much as I could on pure service as a missionary, and I was never criticized or condemned for it.