EAllusion wrote:I'm not referring to a site.
I am.
EAllusion wrote:Oh, so disagreeing with you is a personal attack on you, because it impugns the integrity of your beliefs? So because you personally believe GA lifestyles are modest, even if they comparatively are not, is a personal insult to you to have a differing opinion?
No, it's a personal insult to imply that my direct personal experiences are nothing more than a delusion. I work with GAs and their staff and know many of them personally. I see how busy they are and what kind of work they do. You appear to be telling me that I'm just one of the rich people pretending I have a tough life.
EAllusion wrote:Look, I work in an agency where people routinely work over 80 hours a week in a high stress environment for less than 40k a year. No one is suggesting that GA's sip cocktails at the beach while underlings do all their work, but it is insulting to suggest that because they work a job commensurate with drawing a good income and incredibly good fringe benefits that this means it is a modest lifestyle. Compared to what? People who work 3 demeaning jobs to barely stay above the poverty line?
No, I am not saying they work harder than people who kill themselves just to get by. I am saying the assumption that their lifestyle is a fair compensation for giving up all their money and making $60-80K a year is completely and totally ludicrous.
EAllusion wrote:You're basing that on what?
Based on working with them and their staff and seeing their schedules and knowing how they work and what they worry about. There's nothing in the world that would make me think that job is worth having.
EAllusion wrote:I undersold my assertion with the term "suspicion," because this didn't seem like a thread to bring science in, but satisfaction research does indicate that having a position of leadership over people, having them agree with your ideas, and having a large degree of freedom to direct others is one of the most satisfying things people experience. And losing that is one of the most devastating things people can experience. This corresponds with lay assumptions that it is, in fact, nice to be popular.
And what about the primary responsibility of the GAs, up to and including the 12, is to be obedient? What of the expectation that they'll be available basically 24 hours a day? These are not things that fit well into your conceptualization of their lifestyle.