sock puppet wrote:Do you refer to Monson as Thomas? If not, why not? You both believe in the LDS truth claims; doesn't that give you an affinity and familiarity with one another to put you on first name only basis
If he even knew who I was (I once sat within arm reach of him), he would be quite welcome to refer to me by first name. I wouldn't feel comfortable doing the same because I don't (yet?) relate to him on the same level as I do some others.
sock puppet wrote:My OP and point is that it is a current fad among many LDS. Were you doing it before it became vogue among LDS to speak of this man none have ever met as if they are close, intimate acquaintances.
I don't know when it became "vogue", if it can be called that. But much of the Restoration-themed music I listened to since my teenage years referred to Joseph (and Hyrum) by first name only.
sock puppet wrote:Your experience is sobering. Do you refer to Nelson Mandela as "Nelson" and Alexander Solzhenitsyn as "Alexander"?
No. But if I carefully studied their lives and their writings, and if such things resonated with me to the point that I felt I really new them, then yes, I might start doing so. I'll provide two examples that are less dramatic. David Archuleta and Kelly Clarskon are two people whose growth I have followed over the years, thoroughly enjoying their talent, the resonating/important messages they sing, and their gracious/humble demeanor. I feel a distinct rapport with them, and refer to them by first name...something which even my kids think is out of place. Feel free to join them in their disapproval. :0)
sock puppet wrote:I don't think your harrowing experience makes you arrogant or presumptuous, just your calling someone you never personally knew but is a historical figure, particularly in your religion, by first name only is.
If you want to ratchet up things that you think are presumptuous, the assertion that I never personally knew Joseph is merely that...an assertion.
