Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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Chap wrote:I'd prefer it if you had said something less lawyer-like on such a topic.


I feel that tator is interrogating me and imagining things all because I want to know opinions about the psychology today article.

In the Mormon stories episode about rape they talk about victims not capable of giving consent because of the alcohol . However, they never talked about cases when they give consent before blackouts happen. That is why I want to know opinions.

Sexual abuse is just as bad as false accusation in my opinion, both need discussion.

Tator wrote:This is a statement of future intended behavior. What about your past behavior?


I was a good LDS, I didn't even masturbate. Now stop interrogating me
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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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DoubtingThomas wrote:I feel that tator is interrogating me and imagining things all because I want to know opinions about the psychology today article.
I am such a bully, just like that bully that is as bad as a rapist. Just like the one that beat you up in the 2nd grade? :rolleyes:
Grow up, I just wanted to know why this is some hot button issue of yours because between this thread and the Judge Low thread you seem to be hung up on males being victims and of females.

DoubtingThomas wrote:I was a good LDS, I didn't even masturbate.

Any chance that this statement above describes why you are responding so immaturely below?

DoubtingThomas wrote:Now stop interrogating me!!!!!!!!! %%ch %% YOU!!
You are a Paranoid weirdo or an idiot troll. I had it with you!

I am going to ignore you now because you are a piece of you know what.

Is this masturbation thing still a problem?

How old are you?
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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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Look at this disconnect. Chap has made a statement to you and you're response is to talk about Tator.


DoubtingThomas wrote:
Chap wrote:I'd prefer it if you had said something less lawyer-like on such a topic.


I feel that tator is interrogating me and imagining things all because I want to know opinions about the psychology today article.

In the Mormon stories episode about rape they talk about victims not capable of giving consent because of the alcohol . However, they never talked about cases when they give consent before blackouts happen. That is why I want to know opinions.

Sexual abuse is just as bad as false accusation in my opinion, both need discussion.


Then, in the same post, you choose to go off on Tator and name call.

Tator wrote:This is a statement of future intended behavior. What about your past behavior?


I was a good LDS, I didn't even masturbate. Now stop interrogating me!!!!!!!!! %%%% YOU!!
You are a Paranoid weirdo or an idiot troll. I had it with you!

I am going to ignore you now because you are a piece of you know what.



Those are some communication techniques you got going on there, DT.
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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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Tator wrote:Grow up, I just wanted to know why this is some hot button issue of yours because between this thread and the


LOL I made 714 posts here, 99.9% of them have nothing to do with that. I simply wanted to talk about the psychology today article after listening to the Mormon Stories episode.

Judge Low thread you seem to be hung up on males being victims and of females.


I was talking about many possibilities, false rape accusation is a possibility in the Judge Low thread.
I also stated many times that rape offenders must be punished. So what exactly is your issue? or question?

Notice I am not commenting on the Judge Low thread anymore?

Tator wrote: How old are you?


that is discrimination, grandpa.
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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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Chap wrote:Nevertheless it was decided in the case of Jones vs. Smith, which was appealed to the Supreme Court, that under the circumstances which pertained it was reasonable to presume consent. I'm sure you'll feel better about what happened if you read the explanation on this website ...


so you agree that we must be very careful when making a conclusion about this serious issue
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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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I am not interested in this thread anymore. I hope the mod deletes it.
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DoubtingThomas wrote:I am not interested in this thread anymore. I hope the mod deletes it.


That's not how this board works. Starting a thread, posting on it 6 times, blowing up and bailing isn't how discussion works either.
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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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Chap wrote:
DoubtingThomas wrote:I will never touch a person without consent as defined by the law, if that is what you are thinking.


I'd prefer it if you had said something less lawyer-like on such a topic.

We are after all not talking about buying a used car, but about initiating the most intimate interpersonal activity we take part in. In this dialogue, something is wrong:

A: That was a horrible thing to do! Leave me alone! How could you ever think you had the right to do that to anyone???

B: Nevertheless it was decided in the case of Jones vs. Smith, which was appealed to the Supreme Court, that under the circumstances which pertained it was reasonable to presume consent. I'm sure you'll feel better about what happened if you read the explanation on this website ...


DoubtingThomas wrote:so you agree that we must be very careful when making a conclusion about this serious issue


I don't know about 'we'. You, on the other hand ...
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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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DT,

It might be helpful to move the conversation along if you stated clearly what your intent on this thread is. I'm not really seeing; it's probably because I'm just an average guy so nuance escapes me once in a while.

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Re: Question to Dehlin fans about "Rape in Mormon Culture"

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DoubtingThomas wrote:I am not interested in this thread anymore. I hope the mod deletes it.


DT, sorry you feel I have been too tough on you. I don't think I have been but I will bail from the thread so you can feel more comfortable posting. Besides I am afraid I might be accused of child abuse or sticking my finger some place where it does not belong. I do admire how you have circumvented your mom's "parental controls" on your computer. :lol:

Actually, DT, your last post to me was much more mature and appreciated. I will catch you in another thread. :biggrin: later....
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