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Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 7:30 am
by _ClarkGoble
Lemmie wrote:Hi Clark I can't find where your comment came from! Is it a different thread? I have an interest in Carmack's methodology so I wanted to read your comments about the 17th century grammar theory. Do you have a link?
It's kind of blurred between threads. And I've been wasting far too much time on forums this week for various reasons - so it's all a bit blurred in my memory. However some of the discussion was in the "State of Mormon Apologetics" thread towards the end. Here's the comment I was referring to.
http://www.mormondialogue.org/topic/708 ... 1209842184and
http://www.mormondialogue.org/topic/708 ... 1209842192
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 10:51 am
by _Kishkumen
One wonders how Joseph got the text if it is a 16th/17th century work. I do like this idea, in any case. There are many things unexplained here, but there are with any theory of the book’s origins.
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 12:19 pm
by _Rosebud
What I've always loved most about message boards is the way they document happenings and humanity.
This thread is a beautiful example.
I'm reminded of a conversation I had with my adult daughter in preparing her for some interactions with my Utah family. We we were talking about how to effectively love them and care about them despite all the circumstances and what their different beliefs might mean for us personally.
At a fitting point she said, "Well, Mormonsim is one of the most delusional and narcissistic cultures on the planet."
She's a fairly even-headed person who is careful not to jump to verbal conclusions and who uses a lot of academic speech. It's not common for her to make sweeping claims like that. She's done a lot of reading and a lot of travel.
It's always interesting to me when message boards record the narcissism and the delusions. They're not unique to Mormonsim (and of course my daughter knows that), but the Mormon flavor is so familiar that it's hard not to start going down the road of analyzing all the thinking errors, paranoia, and unsubstantiated conclusions and then to think about why people thought they had enough evidence to support one of their many beliefs, etc.
You know, not that this Mormon drama doesn't feel very real to a lot of people, but there are many many people in this world who are dealing with real problems, and many of them are Mormon. I don't know that this guy's real problems are about losing a venue for his work.
(And who could ever have the "psychic energy" to keep up with harm that happens on these boards? That would be impossible. These places are a fascinating dump. I love them except when I don't.)
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 1:55 pm
by _Lemmie
ClarkGoble wrote:Lemmie wrote:Hi Clark I can't find where your comment came from! Is it a different thread? I have an interest in Carmack's methodology so I wanted to read your comments about the 17th century grammar theory. Do you have a link?
It's kind of blurred between threads. And I've been wasting far too much time on forums this week for various reasons - so it's all a bit blurred in my memory. However some of the discussion was in the "State of Mormon Apologetics" thread towards the end. Here's the comment I was referring to.
http://www.mormondialogue.org/topic/708 ... 1209842184and
http://www.mormondialogue.org/topic/708 ... 1209842192
Thanks for the links, Clark. I didn't realize the quote didn't even come from this board, let alone a thread in this forum. No wonder i couldn't find it.
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 2:37 pm
by _Lemmie
Kishkumen wrote:One wonders how Joseph got the text if it is a 16th/17th century work. I do like this idea, in any case. There are many things unexplained here, but there are with any theory of the book’s origins.
This idea seems to be pretty polarizing of late. It's turning into the new Heartland vs. LGT debate. Speaking of which...
https://www.google.com/amp/s/wheatandta ... gters/amp/I am purely looking at this from an internal textual basis, with no weight given to historical and scientific evidence not contained within the text of the Book of Mormon...
One would have to, wouldn't one? One can't put weight on what doesn't actually exist.

Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 3:00 pm
by _RockSlider
Lemmie wrote:So it is HER fault someone called her a cunt? I can't believe your post. What a disgusting thing to say.
Dr. Shades, please. I broke my commitment to not report because what Rockslider is implying here is sickening. Please move his filth.
I'm simply suggesting that Jersey Girl has a nack for endlessly harping on an individual, in her own nasty condescending way, never giving up, pushing total frustration on her current focus. I'm suggesting Jersey Girl enjoys this. Hell she has been doing it for years and years.
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 3:00 pm
by _RockSlider
Further: Jersey Girl, Jersey Girl, i.e. I'm rough and tough, I take pride in being a bitch. This is Jersey Girl's persona.
Where is Jersey Girl's boundaries? If she takes pride in being a bitch, and is actively being a bitch to someone, where is the offense in someone calling out her bitchiness?
Perhaps Jersey Girl could list which words she takes pride in associating herself with and which words/descriptions cross the Jersey line.
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 3:45 pm
by _Lemmie
Kishkumen wrote:candygal wrote:I hear everyone on this..but as Kish said that I finally understand in all my arguments with Scott Lloyd..that I am not ex-mormon..but perhaps more ex ..LDS. It wouldn't make sense to anyone but all of us. You guys keep me real.
Thanks for pointing this out, candygal. In my view this is a very serious issue, perhaps one of the most serious issues that so-called ex-Mormons grapple with. As I have argued in the past, and continue to work out, one of the unusual aspects of the ex-Mo experience is the intertwined issues of identity and religiosity. The LDS Church has been so successful at isolating its members from the outside world
in certain ways that many come to feel that freedom from the LDS Church must mean freedom from Mormonism and freedom from religious belief altogether. What does one do in this conundrum?
Well, I don't want to overdramatize it, as many find their way and it would be wrong to consider ex-Mormon identity or a-religiosity to be negative outcomes. Not everyone, however, is personally satisfied with such outcomes. I fall into that category. Others may too. Speaking for myself, this has sent me on a personal quest to re-contextualize Mormonism, and interrogate LDS assumptions about what that means. Steven Shields'
Many Paths of the Restoration is helpful in that regard, and so is a broader education on the history of Christianity and religious debates in the centuries leading up to Joseph Smith.
I feel like there are other options. Obviously it is baked into the LDS point of view that there are not. But inasmuch as the LDS mindset tries to hold its members captive by making them feel like there are no other options, and that there is no dignified way to depart from LDS authority, I feel it is absolutely necessary to elucidate the landscape that falls outside the smoke and mirrors the LDS Church has set up.
When I say this, I am not accusing the LDS Church of some kind of conspiracy, or saying that this kind of thing was perpetrated with malicious intent. From another perspective one might call this part of the genius of LDS Mormonism--that it succeeds at monopolizing the mindset of its members to an extent that is likely to hold them in the faith.
The problem, of course, is that the explosion of information has undermined that once formidable doctrinal and social matrix. And yet, it still succeeds to the extent of making Mormon people feel like their aporia, the block or void they feel upon discovering the brittleness of their old belief system, is actually the emptiness of all things Mormon and religion in general. So, what to do but not to do religion anymore?
And that's OK. If that is what you want. It is perfectly valid. Others remain unsettled, however, and they should have better options.
Thanks for pointing this out in such a clear way, Kishkumen, it really is not just a black and white, in or out issue for so many, for the unique reasons you listed.
Especially this:
[rom another perspective one might call this part of the genius of LDS Mormonism--that it succeeds at monopolizing the mindset of its members to an extent that is likely to hold them in the faith.
In a less generous vein, one might argue that this defines a cult, but I think you are correct in noting it is not necessarily done maliciously. Recovering from it definitely qualifies as a type of deprogramming, however.
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 4:45 pm
by _RockSlider
Kishkumen wrote:Speaking for myself, this has sent me on a personal quest to re-contextualize Mormonism, and interrogate LDS assumptions about what that means.
Is this "re-contextualize" from a doctrinal stand (i.e. you still believe in God and are trying to re-contextualize God)?
From a cultural stand (what has the society been, what might/could it become)?
Or are your interests purely philosophical?
Re: Mormon Discussions Disrupts Mormon Apologetics
Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2018 5:28 pm
by _Rosebud
Embrace "bitch."
It tells you more about the speaker than the person being spoken about.
Embracing it makes life a lot easier.
I also like, "Yeah, I''m a bitch. So watch out." That tells an audience something different about a speaker.