Jersey Girl wrote:Rosebud not to worry. When you bring up your particular areas of interest from seemingly out of nowhere, it bothers me. But when someone throws out an obvious hook and you respond, I don't blame you for a single second. I've engaged in off topic chatter here as well. There's a solution here. Let me try to work that out as I have time.
Thanks. The thing is.... I am here for the purpose of mentioning off topic things that don't necessarily exactly align with the conversation. That is annoying to you, but it's pretty much the entire purpose of this board for me. This is the way I have chosen to manage the situation I'm in because it's easy for me to post when I have spare time and it allows me to create dated records. The topics on this board align, of course, with what I want and need to say, but what I want and need to say doesn't always exactly align with the threads or conversation.
If I were restricted to staying on the topic of threads, I'd have to start new threads and manage them. They would be full of people trying to hook me into saying something and I would either have to ignore most of my own threads (which is actuallly what I usually do -- I start my own threads when I want to draw attention to something I'm saying, but not because I want to answer a bunch of questions) or I would be roped into spending too much time trying to manage them. As I've already admitted, I'm creating records this way partially for my own convenience. Starting and managing threads full of people trying to hook me is not convenient... it'd be an energy draw. I get that for you what I'm doing is annoying and frustrating, but for me it's convenient.
And this is a free speech board. I'm allowed.
I recommend anyone who is bothered putting me on ignore. It's not all that interesting after a while.