mentalgymnast wrote: Last night I asked my wife later in the evening just before bed, "Where do you think the words came from that Joseph was reading off of the seerstone in the hat?" She looked at me like, "Huh?" I'm not sure that most members of the church have really even thought about the translation process except to default to the position that God was behind it. I would guess that most members would also default to Moroni being directly involved in the appearance of the words on the seerstone since he was the one that had most of the preparatory interviews/interactions with Joseph.
I think most members would give you a "huh" in response to asking to explain the translation process, especially once they realize it was done with a stone in a hat.
The one thing I would LOVE to do would be to do focus groups of our local ward in asking what each member knows of the history and then what they think it means. I contend that most members have no idea of these types of things because they're taught it was done with plates and through the power of God... but I guess that's another issue.
But to your point, I think your wife's reaction is going to be very similar to anyone else's who isn't spending time researching this stuff beyond the surface. It's when you start really trying to make sense of it that things go south for a lot of people.