Dr Moore wrote:The evidence in my lived experience -- out in the world -- speaks to the quiet goodness of disbelievers and, unfortunately, to arrogant privilege assumed by believers to look (a) down on disbelievers as broken and untrue...
This is a generalization, of course. There are going to be many believers who are readily accepting of the life paths that others are on and choose to associate and have as friends those that are not of their own faith tradition and/or have no faith tradition at all. In my own family I have those that are close to me that have little or no activity in a faith tradition. I don't look down on them as being broken. They do too much good in the world and put out too much love for me to ignore and/or reject. I think they look at me in a similar way.
How can one reject goodness?
I suppose that's where I and many other folks that are supportive of a belief in a higher power come down at. Are others doing good and being a force of nature for good in the world? Are they actively supporting healthy living and positive relationships? Do they support freedom/liberty and opportunity for all people? Are they actively making their workplaces and communities thriving places to be and live? That's what is important.
Dr Moore wrote:...and (b) offer their testimonies in a plea to change while assuaging their God's mandate to testify. These toxic actions diminish intimacy at best, and at worst sever relationships entirely.
Again, another generalization that doesn't apply to all believers. And may I dare say, to the greater part of believers who are living in the world and have been around the block more than once.
Dr Moore wrote:Disbelievers, in my experience, seek out healthier and more holistic spiritual guidance, first to heal wounds inflicted by the shadows of religion in family and friend circles, and second to empower with tools to do real good in the world.
This is where I would take even greater umbrage with your generalizations that believers are somehow arrogant and look down on those that are not of their own religious persuasion. Believers are empowered with real tools to do good in the world. Believers are able to move in and about in the world with a healthy spiritual grounding that causes them to do good and seek good.
Unfortunately there are those that live on both sides of the tracks that see the other as the other and just don't want to get along in peace at the end of the day.
Regards,
MG