Lemmie wrote:Peterson doubles down.DanielPeterson Mod David B • 14 minutes ago
David B: "I honestly don't know how you seriously disagree that despise and hate are not synonyms."
I've said nothing about that question.
David B: "The amount of hate coming out of GQ Cannon's quotation is not something easily dismissed either."
[DCP:] I see none.
You're misreading him. Egregiously.
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David B DanielPeterson • 5 minutes ago
Nope. But seeing as you are digging in your heels, I'll just note coming from one who is outside looking in, most members do not realize how vile they are being, as they do so. That you don't see it, doesn't surprise.
Peterson then asserts that if people leave his church, and by his assumption only are possibly vocal and public about their decision, that LDS members have are justified in reacting with divisive hatred:(note that David b. said nothing about being vocal or public. Peterson has to assume that to justify his hate.)DanielPeterson Mod David B • 9 minutes ago
David B: "Which person who has left is a human wreck? If you can name one, consider: He's not saying one leaver is, but all leavers are. He's not saying that only some incur God's displeasure but all do."
And I agree with him. Believing the claims of the Restoration to be true, I cannot regard rejection of those claims as anything other than unfortunate and regrettable.
David B: "Curious how you can be so cavalier and rather dismissive."
I'm neither cavalier nor dismissive at such cases. I'm profoundly saddened by them.
David B: "I will add this hits me at quite a time. I have family members who have been adamantly and obvious in their anger and hatred."
I'm sorry to hear it. But, just as you hope that they will treat you more charitably, you should try to show them some charity, too. Your vocal departure from the faith and your public rejection of it has certainly caused them considerable pain and real awkwardness around you. Their reactions stem from that, do they not?
I feel for David B’s situation, as I have similar challenges. It’s sad that a religion fosters such hatred toward others, including family members. Peterson exacerbates that with every blog entry like this he puts up. It’s shameful behavior that emphasizes that for some LDS, families are NOT forever, and some family members deserve hate, dismissal, and scorn. It’s an LDS position that reflects the very worst of human society. This LDS mindset has done huge damage in my family. It is inexcusable.
I could not help myself but persevere a bit in the discussion. It only got more and more disappointing as it went on though.
It was revealing, really.