Lemmie wrote:Rosebud wrote:Strategy 3 for Res:
Realize that you’re an anonymous poster on a message board, that you have no inherent right to information, and that Rosebud has a different set of objectives than you. Remember that Rosebud is stubborn and is going to do things her own way no matter what you do or say. Remember that Rosebud has already told you to wait for the future to happen and that she is going to show you what is important to her, if you’re interested, rather than tell you.
Remember that not everyone is a historian and not everyone needs to be a historian for historians to do their work and for people to get answers. Remember that when serious historians get involved and examine real evidence, people won’t have to rely on the loud mouths (Lou, Dan and John) to tell the story. Remember that not everybody is a loud mouth who wants to shove their own version of events down other people’s throats. Remember that some people would like a professional and thorough job done and would like all sides to be heard, not just their own.
Remember that there are things that are far more important than the dissolution of an institute that bears an “important” man’s name. I tend to think that the most important people in the world are children, not men who have other men fawning over them. I have my own, more important, things to address and tend to.
Patience.
Narcissist, thy name is Rosebud.
I came back this afternoon to tell you how lame it is to bring in mental illness when you're insulting people. Calling people delusional, labeling them as narcissists and telling them to up their meds crosses a line of decorum that is harmful to all people who are mentally ill. And to their families.
Getting back to the bigger picture and why I'm so mad about what the church is and isn't doing to solve its problems: while I've never been prescribed nor needed psychotropic drugs, I have a brother who suffers from very severe psychosis. I have spent countless hours comforting him as he experiences delusions, paranoia and associated suicidality. I do that to try to save his life. I am most likely going to fail. I have to think about that and think about how the child I knew is already gone. Someone who has never seen what real psychosis looks like ought to keep her mouth shut. Your insults are cheap.
It's because I've seen so much suffering that I do what I do. Does that make me a "narcissist" because I speak powerfully and I know where I'm going and why, or does that mean I have something authentic to share? You decide, but know that every time you insult me, you expose yourself... not me. Convince yourself that your insults won't make it into a history book if you'd like, but I was there in 2012. A lot that is significant occurred.
And a lot is still to occur.....