You said “The only question for me is if Bishops asking too-detailed questions are engaging in actual child abuse?” so I was responding to that.
I’m afraid I don’t, because it’s in-person training. Here is a link to the summary of topics covered though, check out the PDF for specifics.Here in California, we have some controversies over what is being taught to children during sex ed in the classroom. If a teacher or other consultant were to teach stuff to kids and it made one of the kids uncomfortable because it was too explicit, would that teacher or consultant also be guilty of sexual abuse?
When you answer the question, try to do it from the standpoint of someone who would have to interpret the laws and apply them in a court room, not from the perspective of "I hate creepy Mormon Bishops and wish they would be locked up, but sex ed at schools is a wonderful and beautiful thing, even if it makes kids or parents uncomfortable..."
Look at how you are actually defining and applying your assumptions.Do you have a link to this expanded definition of "grooming" being applied in the UK?It’s not a theory. The risk of unintentional grooming and how to ensure you aren’t doing it is, an integral part of the UK’s education child safety training for teachers.
https://www.gov.uk/government/publicati ... being-safe
To give an example from the training. It is explained to teachers that one of the ways predators groom children is to desensitise them to touching. They may pat a child on the back or touch their arm. Over time they will extend the length of time their hand is on the child. Then the touching gradually progresses to hugging, then hugging for longer etc. You can see where that chain of events leads and how the predator, over time, has desensitised the child. Teachers are trained to not put their hands on children, not to put an arm round them not to hug them etc for two reasons. 1. To avoid giving the appearance that they are being inappropriate with a child/student in their class. And 2. To avoid desensitising the child to an unrelated adults touch in other scenarios away from the classroom - like that overly friendly touchy member at Church on a Sunday who likes to hug people, or the kids sports coach who gives hugs and bottom pats.
Teachers, Sports Coach’s, Bishops, Church Youth Leaders etc should not be making physical contact with people over whom they have responsibility. It either is them being predatory, or they are desensitising them to the actions of a predator - inadvertent grooming.