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Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 4:40 pm
by Kishkumen
First, I need to say that I am a big fan of Mormonism Live, mostly because of my deep respect for RFM. Bill Reel also brings a lot to the table, but his aims and perspective are very different from mine, so I find myself more often disagreeing with what he has to say. He has, to my mind, a very stereotypical ex-Mo skeptic perspective on things. What makes him listenable is that he does what he does very well. Reel also deserves credit for organizing a real dynamo of content proliferation. He has provided a platform for a lot of people, including RFM and Philo Sofee, two of my favorite people.

I don't always agree with what is said, however. This will come as no surprise to most of you. This episode on Halverson's presentation to LDS youth on dealing with faith struggles or doubt really stood out to me as an example of constructing, presumably inadvertently, a huge straw man. Bill and RFM did not seem to like the fact that Halverson was not doing what they thought he should be doing, which is playing by the usual FARMS/FAIR pattern of dealing with issues of fact in answer to skepticism. Instead, Halverson's discussion took place on a more "meta" level, and the ML guys did not click with it.

Halverson's talk came from the position of the faithful speaking to the faithful, including those wavering in faith. He sought to show that a lot of critics engage in rhetoric that seeks to dislodge people from their faith. His advice to his audience was to see through the rhetoric and realize what is being done. For him, there is no good reason to be bamboozled by the rhetoric.

Bill's complaint was that Halverson was not acknowledging the use of rhetoric among the faithful. I didn't come away with that impression at all. It seems to me that what Bill demands is that the LDS Church turn every question into an equal playing field between skepticism and faith, which is, to my mind, completely ludicrous. Of course those who live a life of faith will, in matters of faith, privilege the faithful point of view over skepticism. If you are a person of faith, and you want to remain a person of faith, there is no need for you to turn every issue of faith into an experiment between faith and skepticism. What you need to realize is that Bill Reel has rejected faith, and his goal is to get you to reject it too.

Is the Church bamboozling people by nurturing their faith? I know that the cynical among us--and many of us are exceedingly cynical--think that this must be the case. The LDS Church is, collectively, seeking to make bank by keeping its members in the dark about the facts. There are a number of things that line up nicely in support of this point of view, among them are the LDS Church's ridiculous stockpile of wealth, their absolute demand that tithing means ten percent of a person's income that God demands from the faithful to go into that huge stockpile, and the fact that the LDS Church has handled criticism so poorly.

If we step back, however, I think it is more reasonable to see the entire church enterprise founded on what was the reasonable presumption that most people in ages past operated according to faith of some kind and simply sought out the best faithful position to live by. This way of looking at the history of religion in the West provides a much better explanation for what we see in Mormonism than "because Joe was a conman." The civilizational tide has begun to turn against faith as something to live by, however, and the faithful are told to provide convincing answers to people who do not accept faith at all. Good luck with that, I say.

Honestly, I don't think the faithful owe those who reject faith anything, and I don't think they need to give skepticism an even playing field. What we are talking about here is two very different ways of looking at the world. People of faith can accommodate science just fine, although it may discomfit them for a time, but ideologues against faith can't tolerate faith at all. Only the destruction of faith by skepticism is acceptable, and skeptics look forward to the day when everyone will be skeptics. Maybe it will happen. Maybe it won't. I doubt it will, but I could be wrong. What I do not think, however, is that skepticism is truly objective and free of its own myths--such as the myth of the beautiful world that has no superstitious people in it. LOL. Ahem.

I certainly think that the LDS Church is there to criticize. If there is one thing that really resonates with me in what Reel and RFM did, it was to identify where clearly Halverson is not leaving room for faith so much as making sure that you not are not only faithful but that you are also obedient to LDS leaders. I see certain aspects of the LDS Church as deeply problematic, and I appreciate when people call out the LDS Church for those things. The consistent "don't rock the boat and obey your leaders" refrain is troubling and off-putting. But that is different, in my view, from saying that faith as a whole is the problem. I think faith is part of the human scene, and that in itself it is not *the* problem.

Bill Reel sees it all as one package, or at least he deals with it all as one package. It is interesting that a lot of ex-LDS people are this way. They go from being people of faith to being skeptics. I don't think that this is the only way to go, but it is fascinating that so many ex-LDS people go that way. Surely it has something to do with the times and their unique circumstances, but maybe it says a lot about the kind of faith they held.

In any case, it was another interesting podcast and well worth the listen. I disagreed with much of it, but I am glad I listened. It provided good food for thought.

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 4:51 pm
by drumdude

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 5:15 pm
by Kishkumen
drumdude wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 4:51 pm
Link to the episode:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBmbXk3K_xQ
Thanks, drumdude. I should have included a link.

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:08 pm
by Marcus

It is interesting that a lot of ex-LDS people are this way. They go from being people of faith to being skeptics. I don't think that this is the only way to go, but it is fascinating that so many ex-LDS people go that way. Surely it has something to do with the times and their unique circumstances, but maybe it says a lot about the kind of faith they held.
What "kind" of faith are you referring to? :roll:

Wouldn't the bolded above also be considered "an example of constructing, presumably inadvertently, a huge straw man"? :D

I also disagree with this, at least for myself:
He sought to show that a lot of critics engage in rhetoric that seeks to dislodge people from their faith.
When i discuss a topic, i have no intent to "dislodge people." I am simply giving my opinion. About an idea. Hopefully i might be convincing, but again, its about an idea. Not an attempt to uproot or damage a person.

This just further perpetuates the idea that people who disagree with a belief you have are out to get you, somehow. Why not just consider that they simply have an opinion about something, just like you do? It just happens to be different.

I can't imagine attending a conference where a speaker spends an entire session warning us that, for example, flat earthers express their opinions because they are seeking to personally dislodge us from our knowledge, and so we must be vigilant to make sure we're not fooled or destroyed or have our science upended by them.

And besides, those flat earthers believe that stuff now only because their previous science education was "that kind of" education. :roll:

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:24 pm
by Kishkumen
Marcus wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:08 pm
What "kind" of faith are you referring to? :roll:

Wouldn't the bolded above also be considered "an example of constructing, presumably inadvertently, a huge straw man"? :D
Although this post has your usual gratuitous neener-neener quality to it, I think the questions you raise are fair enough.

So, I said maybe, because I honestly don't know. It is a question in my mind that I continue to mull over. I don't mean it in the sense of an "inferior" faith but instead that there may be something about contemporary LDS beliefs that move ex-LDS people to more readily transition to skepticism than perhaps people in other churches.

So, I don't think I am creating a straw man inasmuch as this is not something that I am taking for granted to be a settled question.
I also disagree with this, at least for myself:
He sought to show that a lot of critics engage in rhetoric that seeks to dislodge people from their faith.
When i discuss a topic, i have no intent to "dislodge people." I am simply giving my opinion. About an idea. Hopefully i might be convincing, but again, its about an idea. Not an attempt to uproot or damage a person.
First off, I am not speaking about Marcus' intent at all. I am talking about what Halverson seemed to be doing. So, the way to address this point would be to listen to what Halverson said and figure out whether I am representing it accurately or not.

Also, if you are identifying yourself as a skeptic according to Halverson's construct, then I believe you do not see yourself as trying to uproot or damage a person.

I think it is possible that many ex-LDS skeptics are, however, deliberately seeking to dislodge people from their faith because they think that LDS people will be better off if they are so dislodged. They don't see it as hurting them but as benefiting them. I can agree that it may save them a lot of money. ;)
This just further perpetuates the idea that people who disagree with a belief you have are out to get you, somehow. Why not just consider that they simply have an opinion about something, just like you do? It just happens to be different.
Does it? People who go out of their way to show others that Mormonism is false are doing more than just having a different opinion. They are actively trying to pull LDS people out of the LDS Church.
I can't imagine attending a conference where a speaker spends an entire session warning us that, for example, flat earthers express their opinions because they are seeking to personally dislodge us from our knowledge, and so we must be vigilant to make sure we're not fooled or destroyed or have our science upended by them.
I can't either, but I also don't agree that this is a good comparison.

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:58 pm
by Doctor Steuss
Kishkumen wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:24 pm
[...] People who go out of their way to show others that Mormonism is false are doing more than just having a different opinion. They are actively trying to pull LDS people out of the LDS Church.
[...]
Hi Kish, I know I am kind of pulling this out of context, and probably not at all on topic as far as the OP goes (or maybe I am? The noggin gods giveth, but they also taketh away) but it triggered a bit of introspection.

I wonder to what extent myself (and perhaps others) do this not so much to pull LDS people out, but as a way to reaffirm to ourselves that we were justified in allowing ourselves to be pulled out. A kind of anti-missionary internal fellowship to our own journey out of the church. Although, I guess, pulling another out would be another aspect of self-affirmation (kind of the inverse of converting someone to the Church).

Hopefully that makes some semblance of sense?

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 8:21 pm
by Res Ipsa
Doctor Steuss wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:58 pm
Kishkumen wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:24 pm
[...] People who go out of their way to show others that Mormonism is false are doing more than just having a different opinion. They are actively trying to pull LDS people out of the LDS Church.
[...]
Hi Kish, I know I am kind of pulling this out of context, and probably not at all on topic as far as the opening post goes (or maybe I am? The noggin gods giveth, but they also taketh away) but it triggered a bit of introspection.

I wonder to what extent myself (and perhaps others) do this not so much to pull LDS people out, but as a way to reaffirm to ourselves that we were justified in allowing ourselves to be pulled out. A kind of anti-missionary internal fellowship to our own journey out of the church. Although, I guess, pulling another out would be another aspect of self-affirmation (kind of the inverse of converting someone to the Church).

Hopefully that makes some semblance of sense?
I've often wondered the same thing.

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 8:39 pm
by Dr Exiled
Maybe Kishkumen got offended by people questioning his continued faith and was too quick to label us? How many people read this discussion board anyway? I'm with Dr. Steuss and Res on this one. I make my statements as a way to reaffirm my own path as its taken me years to deprogram the years of religious programming.

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 8:46 pm
by drumdude
For the record I think there are many perfectly valid ways to leave Mormonism, atheism is not the only path forward. I can think of quite a few much better places to end up, like Judaism and Catholicism. Scientology and Jehovas Witnesses are two of the few religions that are probably worse places to settle on post-Mormonism, it’s a really short list in my opinion…

Re: Sometimes They Miss the Mark: ML on Halverson

Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2022 9:23 pm
by Kishkumen
Doctor Steuss wrote:
Fri Jun 03, 2022 7:58 pm
Hi Kish, I know I am kind of pulling this out of context, and probably not at all on topic as far as the opening post goes (or maybe I am? The noggin gods giveth, but they also taketh away) but it triggered a bit of introspection.

I wonder to what extent myself (and perhaps others) do this not so much to pull LDS people out, but as a way to reaffirm to ourselves that we were justified in allowing ourselves to be pulled out. A kind of anti-missionary internal fellowship to our own journey out of the church. Although, I guess, pulling another out would be another aspect of self-affirmation (kind of the inverse of converting someone to the Church).

Hopefully that makes some semblance of sense?
It does, and I think so. There is also the excitement that comes with acquiring a new perspective on things. People want to share. And some really feel like they are saving friends and family from a cult or a high-demand religion. All of these things can be true about different ex-LDS skeptics.