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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhjpdzZHq3o

I was led to this Mormon stories episode which is much longer than I am inclined to watch anywhere close to completion. I was very puzzled by the premise. This same sex couple got called up to a disciplinary counsel and are all surprised. The statement is made that the church has said that same sex marriages will be treated the same as traditional male female marriage. I am astounded that I have not heard a word about such a change in policy. I had heard of no change from the traditional view that homosexual relations are wrong as in forbidden.

About as up to date on church policy I am is what I see on this message board. Is there a change that has been ignored here. It is a subject which has received scrutiny here. I remember a change away from a draconic policy for treatment of children of same sex marriages. I have heard nothing about a move to acceptance of the same sex marriage.
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huckelberry wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 10:02 pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhjpdzZHq3o

. This same sex couple got called up to a disciplinary counsel and are all surprised.
The shock is due to the fact they didn't live in the same state. They were hunted down without given due discourse. The information isn't about the rule but rather how the church had leaders lying about their motives.
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Rivendale wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 10:27 pm
huckelberry wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 10:02 pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhjpdzZHq3o

. This same sex couple got called up to a disciplinary counsel and are all surprised.
The shock is due to the fact they didn't live in the same state. They were hunted down without given due discourse. The information isn't about the rule but rather how the church had leaders lying about their motives.
I am not pushing a particular view I am just curious. Rivendale, you may have misheard. Miridian and Boise are about 30 miles apart both in the state of Idaho. There was mention of living in a different stake, southern Idaho being Mormon enough to have lots of stakes.
I do not understand what you mean, due discourse. I though disciplinary counsel was called upon church leader discresion. I admit I did not listen long enough for any details about learders statements of motives. (?)
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huckelberry wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 11:10 pm
Rivendale wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 10:27 pm


The shock is due to the fact they didn't live in the same state. They were hunted down without given due discourse. The information isn't about the rule but rather how the church had leaders lying about their motives.
I am not pushing a particular view I am just curious. Rivendale, you may have misheard. Miridian and Boise are about 30 miles apart both in the state of Idaho. There was mention of living in a different stake, southern Idaho being Mormon enough to have lots of stakes.
I do not understand what you mean, due discourse. I though disciplinary counsel was called upon church leader discresion. I admit I did not listen long enough for any details about learders statements of motives. (?)
It was a classic example of lying to protect people above them. That is about it.
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Rivendale wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 11:21 pm
huckelberry wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 11:10 pm

I am not pushing a particular view I am just curious. Rivendale, you may have misheard. Miridian and Boise are about 30 miles apart both in the state of Idaho. There was mention of living in a different stake, southern Idaho being Mormon enough to have lots of stakes.
I do not understand what you mean, due discourse. I though disciplinary counsel was called upon church leader discretion. I admit I did not listen long enough for any details about leaders statements of motives. (?)
It was a classic example of lying to protect people above them. That is about it.
Sorry if I am being slow but , protect them from what on earth? This gets closer to what I am wondering about. Was there any reason they would not expect disfellowship? I am not saying I think that is the best or a good result it just what my previous knowledge says would be expected.
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huckelberry wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 11:30 pm
Rivendale wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 11:21 pm


It was a classic example of lying to protect people above them. That is about it.
Sorry if I am being slow but , protect them from what on earth? This gets closer to what I am wondering about. Was there any reason they would not expect disfellowship? I am not saying I think that is the best or a good result it just what my previous knowledge says would be expected.
If the leadership would have just said you are in a homosexual marriage and you're done that would be it. But they created a tapestry of BS that tried to make themselves not responsible. They tried multiple times to distance themselves from the real reason for being excommunicated. They were just assholes. That is it.
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Rivendale wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 11:35 pm
huckelberry wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 11:30 pm

Sorry if I am being slow but , protect them from what on earth? This gets closer to what I am wondering about. Was there any reason they would not expect disfellowship? I am not saying I think that is the best or a good result it just what my previous knowledge says would be expected.
If the leadership would have just said you are in a homosexual marriage and you're done that would be it. But they created a tapestry of B.S. that tried to make themselves not responsible. They tried multiple times to distance themselves from the real reason for being excommunicated. They were just assholes. That is it.
Rivendale, ok, that sounds weird but ... I guess I could have listened further and received more detail.They did note early on, mixed messages.
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huckelberry wrote:
Wed Jul 06, 2022 10:02 pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhjpdzZHq3o

I was led to this Mormon stories episode which is much longer than I am inclined to watch anywhere close to completion. I was very puzzled by the premise. This same sex couple got called up to a disciplinary counsel and are all surprised. The statement is made that the church has said that same sex marriages will be treated the same as traditional male female marriage. I am astounded that I have not heard a word about such a change in policy. I had heard of no change from the traditional view that homosexual relations are wrong as in forbidden.

About as up to date on church policy I am is what I see on this message board. Is there a change that has been ignored here. It is a subject which has received scrutiny here. I remember a change away from a draconic policy for treatment of children of same sex marriages. I have heard nothing about a move to acceptance of the same sex marriage.
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