In the first story:
In the second story:His prize saddle was misplaced or did not hang properly, and the horse trampled it into shreds. He sharply rebuked the neglectful man and then made a beeline for the bedroom where he said (someone overheard him), “Down Brigham.” Then he knelt and prayed, ‘Lord, I’m sorry. I was angry. Take my anger away and help me to do better next time.’
Keep in mind that Brigham Young was extremely wealthy. He had large homes (both summer and winter and vacation homes) as well as homes for his numerous wives. Brigham also had servants, distilleries, cattle ranches, lumber mills, enormous tracks of land, farms, hotels, etc. Michael Quinn puts his personal wealth at the time of his death at $34,969,000.00 to be exact. See. D. Michael Quinn, The Mormon Hierarchy: Wealth and Corporate Power (Salt Lake City: Signature Books, 2017).Brother Brigham had a prize leather saddle that he really liked. He told his children that they could use any of the other saddles in the barn, but not that one. So one day, of course, while he was out, the children decided to use precisely that saddle. But they couldn’t get it properly onto the horse or pony. It fell off, into the mud, and was a bit scratched up. When Brigham came home, he saw what had happened. He was furious. He scolded the children severely, angrily grabbed the saddle and placed it back where it belonged, and stomped off to the Beehive House, slamming the door behind him.
Brigham Young probably owned dozens of saddles to go along with his lavish lifestyle and dozens of horses. Maybe it's just me, but the story about Brigham flying into a rage over his saddle isn't faith promoting. To me, it's a story about how wealth, power and a lavish lifestyle entitled and corrupted a man to put material goods above others.
To me, it would have been faith promoting if Brigham would have gently sat down with his manservant or children (depending on which myth you believe more) and told them a parable about forgiveness and Jesus wiping the slate clean. I guess one man's faith promoting story is another man's eye-roll.