I guess what doesn’t make sense to me is how someone can gain a sure knowledge of the existence of Jesus and God and still feel the earthly need to lie to their spouse.Kishkumen wrote: ↑Wed Aug 09, 2023 10:28 amI agree that polygamy was and is bad business. Unconscionable in the way Joseph Smith did it, but also just a poor model of marriage for any society.drumdude wrote: ↑Wed Aug 09, 2023 5:19 amThe sham re-marriages done for Emma after she “authorized” the marriage without realizing he had already done it behind her back…
Do you need to know anything else about Joseph Smith’s character? If he had really seen Jesus he would have the balls to tell Emma the truth.
At the same time, I don’t find it very useful to try to understand everything about Mormonism through the lens of Joseph Smith’s apparent character flaws in individual areas, as though all we need to know is that he lied about this, that, or the other, to write the whole thing off.
All that is, in my view, is an inversion of the simplistic and naïve thinking that some people lean heavily on in order to become and stay LDS. Replace simple and naïve with simplistic and cynical, and there one is: the disillusioned but no more enlightened ex-Mo.
I don’t like Brigham Young, but I think he was somewhat more realistic than most when he disassociated Joseph Smith’s moral character from the religion he founded. Joseph Smith himself also understood that people would demand him to be the two-dimensional “saint” they felt a prophet should be but that he would always fail at being.
Whether one buys into the LDS thing or not, human culture does not come out of ideal situations and ideal people. Although it is nearly irresistible to obsess over the moral character of others, there are times when that concern can become oppressive, and those who insist on doggedly pursuing the question almost seem to be relishing in the failures of others to their own detriment. That is something that I know I have to be on my guard against in myself.
I would expect meeting Jesus and God to have a much more transformative effect on a man’s life, elevating him beyond basic natural human faults and worries.
All of this makes sense if as you say, we simply chalk it all up to humans acting as humans do. The mystery vanishes. And Joseph’s faults don’t become a smoking gun, but just add to the cumulative case against Mormonism being anything but a human creation.