drumdude wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 2:23 am
Canadiandude2 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 2:15 am
Surely there are court documents and filings as well right? Rulings of the outcome and/or evidence of a settlement?
Yeah I’m just hiding them from you.
Yeah, because that’s the only logical interpretation of what I wrote there that your uncritical brain could possibly come up with. Complete with the
Honestly dude you’re not much better than Danny P.
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I never implied that you were hiding the court documents. My actual point doesn’t even require such nonsense for me to consider their absence from the discourse to be considered strange.
What I did imply however was that there are some
inconvenient details to the relationship that you left neglected to include. This is an example of cherry picking as even a brief description of the power imbalance and firing are important details, which- unlike the court documents, are much easier to provide, at least in general terms.
Would I like the court documents? Sure. But I actually haven’t been able to find any court documents on the subject that I recall from past instances this conflict has occurring here or on other venues. What I do know however is that your TLDR left out the power imbalance between the two; the firing; and the accused’s abuse of procedure and his status at the time that enabled such.
You also neglected to give in at least general terms what the findings, and settlement arrangements were. That there even was a settlement. Did the accused choose to settle? This is an important detail. I could be wrong but I suspect that while some of the accusations were stretched or possibly untrue, that there was enough legitimate evidence given and problematic behaviour revealed so as to incentivize Dehlin to reach a settlement with Rosebud. The same could be said but in reverse for Rosebud- she had just enough evidence so as to successfully make a problematic case for Dehlin- but it had some gaps, inconsistencies, and similar problems to give her team just enough uncertainty that the case’s outcome had it otherwise been dealt with through the courts absent of any settlement.
There are flaws in my argument, and I’m open to being wrong, but if so, then explain why, and be sure to give a more detailed and accurate briefing that doesn’t fail to include the strongest (but logical and evidentiary) arguments for each position.
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I’ll go back later in the week to prior posts so as to refamiliarize myself with the conflict’s details and major arguments made by either side. But
I do know you left some pretty obvious details out, and I’m unimpressed that your response was to mock and evade. Yours was far too charitable explanation re: Dehlin and what he actually did. He and his proponents can either own it, or again, distort, mock, and evade. If the latter- well, this is why- though I participate here- I
wouldn’t be keen on recommending this site to my fellow ex and postmo’s. Too much noise sometimes for an examination of the data- and this is the conclusion I’ve come to, even despite believing this forum to be more intellectually engaging than most of exmo Reddit.