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Lol. I read that thread. He did not. Your accusations are getting ridiculous.

Of course it was ridiculous, that was the point! But not as ridiculous as your sexism accusation.

[_DoubtingThomas]

Just wanted to document this nonsense before you delete stuff.

When I have the time I will start quoting you like crazy. I can play the same game.

[_DoubtingThomas]

If you continue with this baseless accusation in a thread

Do you agree that there are different standards for men yes or no? Just answer my question and I promise never to use the "baseless" accusation again!

Just end it and lets be friends.

[_Lemmie]

If you continue with this baseless accusation in a thread where you changed the title, deleted your OP, and are using it to attack me again and again, then I will continue posting your greatest sexist hits. The list is long but infamous.

You can keep quoting me if you want, but do you really want another relationship thread? And honestly a woman that had a lot of partners isn't attractive to me. What am I supposed to do?

If you continue with this baseless accusation in a thread

Do you agree that there are different standards for men yes or no? Just answer my question and I promise never to use the "baseless" accusation again!

And

Lol. I read that thread. He did not. Your accusations are getting ridiculous.

Of course it was ridiculous, that was the point! But not as ridiculous as your sexism accusation.

And

Just wanted to document this nonsense before you delete stuff.

When I have the time I will start quoting you like crazy. I can play the same game.

And

Do you agree that there are different standards for men yes or no? Just answer my question and I promise never to use the "baseless" accusation again!

Just end it and lets be friends.

Just four more of the same:

I admitted that Mormon Discussions is my punching bag. I do regret it, I am just trying to get it over with and clear my name.

[_Some Schmo]

In the real world I wouldn't really care if I woman tells me "Show your dick"!

So, you understand that perhaps moksha might have the same reaction? That he was fully aware it was a joke and not feeling harassed? That there's a difference between men and women, and that was part of the joke? It's not that the standards are different as much as the circumstances that constitute harassment.

Yeah, you probably can't get away with asking women for naked pictures, but then, it would be a legitimate question whether you were serious or not. The circumstances would be different. Life's not fair.

[_Some Schmo]

By the way, DT, you think everything I write is ridiculous? That's very hurtful. Why do you have to be so mean?

Especially when I went to all the trouble of trying to bring to life your sex drought, so we could all really relate to the importance of the topic you brought up... twice.

Last time I try to help you. Ungrateful sod.

[_Res Ipsa]

DT, maybe there's something you don't understand. I form my opinions of you based on what you say and do -- not what Lemmie says and does. If you want to "just end it," that's entirely in your hands.

Do you agree that there are different standards for men yes or no? Just answer my question and I promise never to use the "baseless" accusation again!

What exactly do you think you are doing here? If you want to "just end it, why are you demanding something from Lemmie? Just stop making the baseless accusation. What it looks like from here is that you are taking a situation that you can completely solve by yourself and demanding that Lemmie solve it by acting how you want her to act. That's a boundary problem. It could end up being the roots of something worse.

Just end it and lets be friends.

Same thing. You can just end it anytime you want. Just stop trying to make Lemmie say or do something. Lemmie is a fully capable adult. She controls her behavior. You control yours. She gets to choose who she likes and dislikes. She gets to choose her friends.

Look, if you read the board regularly, it's no secret that Lemmie and I don't get along. That's fine. Nobody has an obligation to like me, to get along with me, or consider me their friend. I can avoid confrontational encounters with Lemmie all by myself. I do me. She does her. If we have a confrontational encounter on a the board, it's completely my choice whether to continue it or walk away.

You are not a helpless victim here. Assume responsibility for you own behavior and stop demanding that other's behave like you want them to. That's all it takes.

Your choice.