Sharing PMs is your ‘more constructive way forward’?Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:10 pmWhat's your more constructive way forward, you're a moderator!!
Can I share our PMs?
But then, everyone will know my secret risotto recipe.
Sharing PMs is your ‘more constructive way forward’?Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:10 pmWhat's your more constructive way forward, you're a moderator!!
Can I share our PMs?
Let’s approach this with seriousness. Canpakes, from this moment on, as a moderator, would you like to utilize this thread to strive for a more constructive environment for everyone in the forum? I am, what do you think?canpakes wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:13 pmSharing PMs is your ‘more constructive way forward’?Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:10 pm
What's your more constructive way forward, you're a moderator!!
Can I share our PMs?
But then, everyone will know my secret risotto recipe.
1. A thread already exists for that sort of activity.Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:35 pmLet’s approach this with seriousness. Canpakes, from this moment on, as a moderator, would you like to utilize this thread to strive for a more constructive environment for everyone in the forum? I am, what do you think?
What if Kishkumen tells us it's ok?canpakes wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:48 pm1. A thread already exists for that sort of activity.Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:35 pm
Let’s approach this with seriousness. Canpakes, from this moment on, as a moderator, would you like to utilize this thread to strive for a more constructive environment for everyone in the forum? I am, what do you think?
2. This is not my thread to commandeer.
If that’s the agreement between the two of you, I’d say ‘go for it’. : )
Right, so when you say, "let's start treating one another with the utmost respect," you are not asking that I behave more civilly toward you? I mean, that's what I thought I was agreeing with you, when I said that I would try to treat you more civilly. What am I missing here?Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 9:22 pmI'll do it for you, here's exactly what I said:
"Personally, I think you're a good guy. I can tell by your videos you have a good heart.
So do you want to do a little experiment? when we post, let's start treating one another with the utmost respect, almost over doing it, to see who picks up on it first. And afterwards, I won't even say anything, I'll let you talk about what we did if you choose to."
I'll join in. Sounds like a good idea....Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:35 pmLet’s approach this with seriousness. Canpakes, from this moment on, as a moderator, would you like to utilize this thread to strive for a more constructive environment for everyone in the forum? I am, what do you think?
What I said might not have been clear enough. What I meant was let's try something new, let's go crazy with compliments in our posts to each other and see if the board notices. That way, when someone actually asks what's going on, you or I could say, "As everyone can see, it's not that hard to be nice to everyone if you put in a little effort while you're writing post." I was trying to spark a conversation on the board so positive change can be talked about.Kishkumen wrote: ↑Thu Sep 18, 2025 12:20 amRight, so when you say, "let's start treating one another with the utmost respect," you are not asking that I behave more civilly toward you? I mean, that's what I thought I was agreeing with you, when I said that I would try to treat you more civilly. What am I missing here?Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 9:22 pmI'll do it for you, here's exactly what I said:
"Personally, I think you're a good guy. I can tell by your videos you have a good heart.
So do you want to do a little experiment? when we post, let's start treating one another with the utmost respect, almost over doing it, to see who picks up on it first. And afterwards, I won't even say anything, I'll let you talk about what we did if you choose to."
Excellent! Thank you very much! If we are going to engage in a discussion about progressing in a more constructive and courteous manner, let's be truthful about the reasons behind our actions on this board, particularly regarding the insults and unkind behavior towards each other. I will begin.Philo Sofee wrote: ↑Thu Sep 18, 2025 4:01 amI'll join in. Sounds like a good idea....Hound of Heaven wrote: ↑Wed Sep 17, 2025 10:35 pm
Let’s approach this with seriousness. Canpakes, from this moment on, as a moderator, would you like to utilize this thread to strive for a more constructive environment for everyone in the forum? I am, what do you think?