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Gazelam wrote:I have a question. When I was in Scotland, the black people there were very different from american blacks. They were real africans and spoke very proper english. No "ghetto" style of clothing.

Did you see this in Germany, and also did you ever have a discussion with any blacks in germany regarding slavery. I know that african tribes obviously dealt with it since they were the ones being drug off to america, even kidnapping the tribes they fought with selling them to the slave traders.

I guess what I'm wondering is how the Cain doctrine is taken from a black from Africa or Europe who hasnt dealt with racism to the degree that an American black has. I don't view it as a doctrine of hate. I view it as a simple doctrine of God working through families that have shown that they can bear the priesthood with honor, and working through them. Abraham struck up a deal with God and asked that his family bear the responsibilities of the priesthood, concerned for his progenys salvation.

I'm no global historian, but I wonder which of the old african tribes would have been able to bear the priesthood, or would have wanted to. The Zulu maybe? The groups in Ethiopia? The priesthood was restored only a short time, historically speaking, before it was given to the blacks in 1978. In view of history this is only around 150 years. In that time the blacks went through the release of slavery and the breakthru to mainstream acceptance as a people.

Just pondering

Gaz


Gaz, during the time that I was in Germany, the culture was very much starting to adopt American "ways", and the youngsters who were doing the adopting seemed to be proud of it. I used to see fashion magazines with clothing in them that were labeled "American". I would think that ten years later, if the culture continued on this path, they would be even more like us in some ways, including the hip-hop culture. Deutsche Rap was a favorite of mine when there, though the issues might be a bit different. Germany deals with poverty in a different way than we do here, but they also deal with education completely different. I have a friend who cannot go to college or trade school, because she didn't continue straight out of high school. So she's stuck in retail for the rest of her life. Sucks.

I never really got into race discussions in Germany, because the people there accepted me so openly. They used to stare at me unabashedly, and I was shamed until my mom's friend told me that they thought mixed races to be beautiful. I think that was the first time I ever held my head up.

But I will tell you this: some of the LDS men from Ghana that I had the chance to talk to when I was LDS saw the Cain doctrine to be, and I quote, "lies". They ignored that part of the doctrine. One even told me that they "do church" completely differently there, than they do here. They have hymnals from all different churches, church is more lively, much more like some of the predominantly black churches are here. But I think that given where church headquarters is, many black saints aren't going to openly say how they feel about this issue. Many feel like I do, but they are too afraid to say so.

You wouldn't believe the discussions that go on behind close doors when black LDS think no one's listening. I've been party to a few, and they're not pretty. Still, for those who stay, more power to you. I've just found what I was looking for outside the church. I don't live a life of hedonism, but I feel far more hope now than I did back then of having a family and being happy. I don't believe God wants me to be alone. And that is the message I got when I was LDS. It was either marry a man from Ghana (and have one or two to choose from in a period of a few years), or stay single. That's hard to swallow when you're in a singles ward with 250+ men in it, and 40 marriages a year.
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Always did have a soft spot for Germany. My parents were stantioned at Rhein-Main AFB when I was a teen for about two years. I kinda wish I'd have paid a bit more attention to the language when I was there. Now days about the best I can manage is a few basic pleasantries, how to find food, beer, the bathroom, a place to crash for the night, and how to cuss like a sailor. But then, that's all you really need to know about a given language for basic travel purposes. Well, that and how to find the local US Embassy.

Anyways...

Back to the subject, kinda sorta. GIMR, feel free to add your own thoughts on this, but I'm gonna rant a bit on one of the things I see as being part of the problems that the black community (in the US at least) has with negitive stereotype images, the lack of visable positive role models. It's also a bit of a rant on the general lack of positive role models period in this country...

Don't get me wrong, I understand perfectly that there are quite a few blacks that qualify as positive role models. Men and women like Martin Luther King (excepting his philandering, of course), or Rosa Parks spring to mind for their courage in standing up for their rights as citizens. Warriors like the pilots of the 332nd Fighter Group, or generals like Colin Powell (General, US Army, Ret.). Scientists like George Washington Carver or Samuel Lee Kountz Jr.

But today, you turn on the TV and the most prominent displays of rolemodels for young blacks are Rappers, or professional sports players, or other such BS.

Some man or woman with a microphone rhyming about how great it is to be a gansta is not a rolemodel. The sorts of things they glorify aren't positive in any way. As a role model they give a child the impression that being a thug, or treating women like mere repositories for semen, or selling/using drugs is a good thing. Nevermind their horrific mangling of the English language...

Some genetic mutant that can dunk a ball just by hopping slightly off the ground is not a role model. Sports players give kids a false sense of hope, filling them of dreams of "being like Mike" if only they wear the right shoes. The reality is that for every guy that made it on a profession sports team, there are hundreds, if not thousands, of guys who failed, and often failed to become a sports player at the expense of their education.

If every mother or father in the black community (hell in America as a whole) would show their kids what a positive role model is and encourage them to emulate people worthy of it, then maybe we'd end up with more heros and a lot less statistics.
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Hey Coffee,

I'll post back and we'll chat about your post later this week. I started school again today. But I wanted to say, what a coinkidink! I lived in Wallau, which was between Frankfurt and Wiesbaden. It was actually a little village in the larger city of Hofheim. Rhein-Mein was actually right next to Frankfurt airport, right? I miss those days...

I seriously tried to get lost in the airport the day they sent me home.

On subject, I agree with thee. And we can talk more about that soon. Now to find food, do some yoga and go to bed.
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Nice responce GIMR. Thanks for that.

You wouldn't believe the discussions that go on behind close doors when black LDS think no one's listening. I've been party to a few, and they're not pretty.


Please share !!
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Walter Williams is a great guy who substitutes for Rush Limbaugh frequently. Very good mind.

Biography:
Born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Dr. Walter E. Williams holds a B.A. in economics from California State University, Los Angeles, and M.A. and Ph.D. degrees in economics from UCLA. He also holds a Doctor of Humane Letters from Virginia Union University and Grove City College, Doctor of Laws from Washington and Jefferson College and Doctor Honoris Causa en Ciencias Sociales from Universidad Francisco Marroquin, in Guatemala, where he is also Professor Honorario.

Dr. Williams has served on the faculty of George Mason University in Fairfax, Virginia, as John M. Olin Distinguished Professor of Economics, since 1980; from 1995 to 2001, he served as department chairman. He has also served on the faculties of Los Angeles City College, California State University Los Angeles, and Temple University in Philadelphia, and Grove City College, Grove City, Pa.

Dr. Williams is the author of over 150 publications which have appeared in scholarly journals such as Economic Inquiry, American Economic Review, Georgia Law Review, Journal of Labor Economics, Social Science Quarterly, and Cornell Journal of Law and Public Policy and popular publications such as Newsweek, Ideas on Liberty, National Review, Reader's Digest, Cato Journal, and Policy Review. He has authored six books: America: A Minority Viewpoint, The State Against Blacks, which was later made into the PBS documentary "Good Intentions," All It Takes Is Guts, South Africa's War Against Capitalism, which was later revised for South African publication, Do the Right Thing: The People's Economist Speaks, and More Liberty Means Less Government.

He has made scores of radio and television appearances which include "Nightline," "Firing Line," "Face the Nation," Milton Friedman's "Free To Choose," "Crossfire," "MacNeil/Lehrer," "Wall Street Week" and was a regular commentator for "Nightly Business Report." He is also occasional substitute host for the "Rush Limbaugh" show. In addition Dr. Williams writes a nationally syndicated weekly column that is carried by approximately 140 newspapers and several web sites.

Dr. Williams serves on several boards of directors: Grove City College, Reason Foundation and Hoover Institution. He serves on numerous advisory boards including: Cato Institute, Landmark Legal Foundation, Institute of Economic Affairs, and Heritage Foundation.

Dr. Williams has received numerous fellowships and awards including: Foundation for Economic Education Adam Smith Award, Hoover Institution National Fellow, Ford Foundation Fellow, Valley Forge Freedoms Foundation George Washington Medal of Honor, Veterans of Foreign Wars U.S. News Media Award, Adam Smith Award, California State University Distinguished Alumnus Award, George Mason University Faculty Member of the Year, and Alpha Kappa Psi Award.

Dr. Williams has participated in numerous debates, conferences and lectures in the United States and abroad. He has frequently given expert testimony before Congressional committees on public policy issues ranging from labor policy to taxation and spending. He is a member of the Mont Pelerin Society, American Economic Association and the Bohemian Club of San Francisco.
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Gazelam wrote:Nice responce GIMR. Thanks for that.

You wouldn't believe the discussions that go on behind close doors when black LDS think no one's listening. I've been party to a few, and they're not pretty.


Please share !!


Well, for me it started on an LDS singles website. I at the time was very much confused about why it seemed like I attracted so much ire just being myself. I came across a friend that I still have, and we connected first online and then over the phone. I finally got to meet her about two years ago.

We talked about how it seems in some situations like there's fear. We talked about how as converts (most of us), our families think we've gone nuts. We talked about the comments that were made, and how difficult it was to date. Gaz, every single black American female LDS that I know with the exception of one, is single. Every single one, save my recently married friend; every one I've networked with, every one I'm friends with. I had one friend who left the church saying, "I just want to go back and not care what they say". It's hard.

You can't be yourself, you can't be an expression of the culture you came out of and expect to make friends in this LDS community in this area. And they're at least 50,000 strong, the last time someone counted.

I was a member for five years and went on one date. And to be honest, I think that the only reason why dude went out with me was to get me on his political campaign. He was a nice guy, but he really wasn't into me. And I really wanted at that time to be included in the dating scene. No one else would come near me. I'd be standing next to a white girl, and a guy who didn't know either of us would come up and speak to her, look at me (even if I said), and say little of nothing to me. I watched female friends score dates while I barely got a "hello".

The one dude that persued me was a young man from Ghana. I didn't reject him based on that, but rather based on the fact that he went to the library and found my address online based on a telephone number given to him by a mutual acquaintance. He was sure I'd remember him from church. I did not. I'd seen him once, that's enough to come to my house? He showed up on the front step, called me every day, and begged me for 18 months to be his wife. Mind you, I felt like he didn't know me, and I was frightened of the fact that a strange man would just show up on my doorstep. I live alone with my mom, and folks is crazy around here. I even had nightmares about it, dreaming I was on a boat in the Northern Atlantic (and I couldn't swim) with him on it, and wedding dresses pinned to the walls. Needless to say, when I threatened to take legal action (because it got to the point where he had moved to UT and was trying to lure me there), he wasn't happy.

Many of the black female LDS I've talked to have faced the dichotomy of dating outside the church (and trying to convert the man, which my recently married friend did...but they had a country and culture in common, both from Accra), or not dating at all. Yes, there are interracial marriages in the church, the Bishop of the Kensington MD ward is black and married to a white woman. Went to a fireside he gave. It happens...but not often enough for all the good, beautiful black women and men in the church. If we don't find each other, who do we find? I stopped looking. It wasn't worth it for me. No denomination is. I just want you to believe in God, and hopefully let that guide your conscience in a compassionate manner.

There's a disconnect in the church on this issue. My friend and I spoke on it the last time she was here, and she said that she didn't believe that God would fail to give me a family if I stayed LDS. But she didn't sit among these SLC transplants like I did. 90% of the people in my old ward were from Utah, and most of them brought their mentalities with them. The ward was so competitive, that many ended up leaving, transferring to other wards.

Gaz, men wouldn't meet my eyes. Why? They'd shuffle if I sat next to them in church. Why? Again, there were no dates. Why? Even a close friend of mine who supposedly loved everything about me, I was supposed to be his closest female friend...he chose everything I could not be, white, virgin, and born in the church. I still remember the pain of that rejection; you could hold my hand, kiss my cheek, but at the end of the day, I was still too impure for you. It took me months to forgive him...and I did when I realized that I'd been spared someone I was ultimately never going to be compatible with.

Again Gaz, if we don't find each other (blacks in the church), who do we find? And do you think that Africans and black Americans have a lot in common culturally? I had a stepmother from Uganda. Our worlds were like night and day. But some in the church look at the dark skin and say it's all good. Culturally I'm probably closer to you, Gaz, than I was to my stepmother.
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Lol.... Coffee, you really have to go back and find the post where "Scooter" (sidenote: why do you call him that?) went through and listed all of the various and sundry websites he reads each day in order to feel "educated." I can't recall what I said to him, but it really set him off. (I think I was bagging on him for having never earned a college degree.)



As I recall, the vast majority of the websites I mentioned are the sites of longstanding think tanks, some of them among the most prestigious in North American (Cato, Heritage etc.) and I've been following their written work for many years now. Now, of course, one can keep up on a weekly, or daily basis, as opposed to buying books once in a while, receiving newsletters periodically, and reading essays in monthly or bi-monthly reviews (or fortnightly, in the case of NR).

I'm sorry but I fail to see what Scratch's point is in impugning this regimen of study and education. I also do a geat deal of basic reading from my own always expanding library. If fact, I just finished The Mcdonalization of Society, by George Ritzer, this past week, while pouring over my latest issue of NR.

I have no self consciousness whatever about not having an advanced degree, except for the fact that having this credential would have opened doors to a much more interesting and prosperous professional life than I've been able to avail myself of to this point. An advanced degree, however, does not imply that one is particularly wise or intelligent, nor that one is a deep or serious thinker.
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Coggins7 wrote:I'm sorry but I fail to see what Scratch's point is in impugning this regimen of study and education. I also do a geat deal of basic reading from my own always expanding library. If fact, I just finished The Mcdonalization of Society, by George Ritzer, this past week, while pouring over my latest issue of NR.


Scooter, reading someone elses work without having any education or knowledge or the underlying principles involved is what the point it. You are essentially a walking, talking, and worse, POSTING appeal to authority fallacy. You have no real understanding of what you read on many of those sites. You are unable to critically analylize the contents or find inconsistancies or contradiction contained in them as a result or your lack of real education. Anyone can point to a site and say "See! So&So says this, so it MUST be true", but without the training gained from higher education you are unable to see why they are right or what it is that makes them wrong. As a result, most of us look at you as being a slackwitted idiot who parades around articles and websites that you don't understand the full implications of.

It's pretty simple, really. You are proof that somewhere out there, a village is missing its idiot, Scooter.
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Again Gaz, if we don't find each other (blacks in the church), who do we find? And do you think that Africans and black Americans have a lot in common culturally? I had a stepmother from Uganda. Our worlds were like night and day. But some in the church look at the dark skin and say it's all good. Culturally I'm probably closer to you, Gaz, than I was to my stepmother.


I don't see interacial marriages as an isue in the "post priesthood ban" times. I don't think now people care about that anymore. 40 years ago it was an honest issue since the priesthood would not be in the family. The only advice given now is to avoid it if it would put undue pressure on the couple due to others prejudices. I think time and the passing of the generation that grew up under that mindset will cure the problem.

Did you say you live back east? I wonder if in areas like that race is that big an issue.

Maybe guys avoided dating the black girls in the ward because they had been to the movies with a black girl before, and they just wanted to be able to watch the movie without someone yelling at the screen. : ) just kidding.

As far as your stepmom goes, What was it that was particularly different between you and her? Was it your American upbringing? Was she all proper british, and you were loud American?

Gaz
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Gazelam wrote:
Again Gaz, if we don't find each other (blacks in the church), who do we find? And do you think that Africans and black Americans have a lot in common culturally? I had a stepmother from Uganda. Our worlds were like night and day. But some in the church look at the dark skin and say it's all good. Culturally I'm probably closer to you, Gaz, than I was to my stepmother.


I don't see interacial marriages as an isue in the "post priesthood ban" times. I don't think now people care about that anymore. 40 years ago it was an honest issue since the priesthood would not be in the family. The only advice given now is to avoid it if it would put undue pressure on the couple due to others prejudices. I think time and the passing of the generation that grew up under that mindset will cure the problem.


Eh, not really true, Gaz. The Church's legacy of racism has never been fully addressed. In fact, the long-standing ban (and this was a doctrinally and scripturally supported ban) on interracial marriage, and never been formally or publicly lifted. It seems clear that the ban is no longer in place, since interracial couples have gotten married in the temple, but it is unclear how, when, or why the ban was lifted. No doubt you recall the headline from the issue of Church News that announced the lifting of the priesthood ban: "Interracial Marriage Strongly Discouraged."
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