Res Ipsa wrote: ↑Wed Nov 24, 2021 4:37 amI can’t speak for admin or the board. I can only speak for myself. You don’t have to give me any links. I believe you. In the black, I don’t want you to leave, and I would be sad if you did. Lem and I get along like dynamite and a lit fuse, and I would be sad if she left.Jersey Girl wrote: ↑Wed Nov 24, 2021 4:05 am
It's the closest standing rule we have right now. If he wants to make a new rule as you say, that would be fine by me.
What is not fine by me, is that this issue has been raised since the beginnings of this board and never once has Shades bothered to address it. Would you like a list of links from the archives to back that claim? Because I have them.
Now, try to imagine that you are a long running female poster on this board. Imagine that you've seen this pass before your screen for 16 years. Imagine that you've watched the female population here dwindle down to almost nothing. Imagine that a clown car pulls up and unloads it's passengers and once again, female posters are being spit on again using sexual matters to do the spitting.
What the “F” would this admin have us do, RI? What? Just go away? Is that what this board wants? I can't speak for Lemmie but speaking only for myself, you know what--“F” this crap.
This may sound silly, but both times I’ve moderated here, I’ve taken the clone of Shades thing pretty seriously. It’s part of the agreement I made with him. And, to me, that means not getting creative with the rules on my own. To me, that would be a breach of trust. So, closest rule we have isn’t good enough for me.
I rarely get time to read whole threads. My moderator efforts right now consists of reading and responding to reports. I’m not sure I’ve seen a report of harassment since the last discussion. Has the behavior changed at all since?
Hold ON. I just learned that one of my acquaintances of 3 years in the true crime community has passed away. I need to talk to a few people and pay tribute. I'll come back to this.