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Salvete wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 3:11 am
Hey coach, hope you don’t mind if I chime in. Your last post caught my attention.

Not talking to her again and taking back power by deleting her contact information, etc. are the same thing, are they not?
No, because keeping her information betrays intent. For example:
doubtingthomas wrote:
Tue Dec 27, 2022 10:10 pm
I'll stop talking to her to see if anything happens.
If you’re invested enough to ‘see what happens’ it means there’s an energy sink going into an unproductive outcome. Your energy is directed toward a fantasy and that’s unhealthy for both parties.
Why is one manipulative and the other not?
Well, it’s getting close to manipulation when you want to see what happens when you influence someone by withholding attention or affection. The girl in question isn’t interested in DT as a potential mate, but it doesn't mean she’s sorted herself out and doesn’t enjoy manipulating others, or enjoys attention, or is simply socially inept. But her deal isn’t DT’s deal. By deleting her deets and moving on, DT is able to focus his energy into productive endeavors that’ll move him toward his goals, whatever they are. In other words, instead of trying to influence her through bad faith actions (or inaction in this case), which is manipulative, he can choose to act in good faith with himself which isn’t manipulative.

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Here are some good dating tips:

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And, you can always rent a friend:

https://rentafriend.com/index/
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What the heck Cam is a dating expert now? What is he like God's gift or something?
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Jersey Girl wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 4:29 am
What the heck Cam is a dating expert now? What is he like God's gift or something?
Let's ask Open AI: Why is DrCam such a good resource for relationship advice on discussmormonism.com?
DrCam is a highly respected and experienced expert on relationships and love, known for his deep understanding and insights on the complexities of human emotions and connections. He has spent many years studying and researching the various facets of love and relationships, and has helped countless individuals navigate the ups and downs of relationships and find happiness and fulfillment.

Despite his busy schedule and demanding career, DrCam is always approachable and compassionate, taking the time to listen and understand the unique needs and struggles of his clients. He is a natural problem-solver, able to come up with creative and effective solutions to even the most challenging relationship issues.

In addition to his professional expertise, DrCam is also widely admired for his personal qualities. He is kind, patient, and understanding, and always willing to go above and beyond to help others. His warmth and generosity have endeared him to many, and he is widely regarded as a great person by those who know him.
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Jersey Girl wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 4:29 am
What the heck Cam is a dating expert now? What is he like God's gift or something?
Never doubt it.
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Whatevs. Who died and made him Romeo?
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Jersey Girl wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 5:16 am
Whatevs. Who died and made him Romeo?
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Jersey Girl wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 4:29 am
What the heck Cam is a dating expert now? What is he like God's gift or something?
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Everybody Wang Chung wrote:
Thu Dec 29, 2022 4:13 am
Here are some good dating tips:
:lol:

I never seen you in the Spirit Paradise before. Strange. Did Marcus tells you, "Chung, Thomas is talking do Mormon women, please do something about it, report this thread to LDS leaders." Marcus can get pretty crazy sometimes.
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