Did Wade just shut down mentally?

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Re: Did Wade just shut down mentally?

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wenglund wrote:I am disinclined to "bail out" of conversations with people who I see as willing and able to discuss valuable things in a reasonable, informed, and rational way, because it is such a rare occurance (particularly at online discussion boards like this) and I find myself on those rare occasions being enriched and enlightened and uplifted. This is particularly true with reasonable, informed, and rational people I disagree with. Such conversations are not ended by "bailing out" on one or both sides, but by coming to a mutual understanding, if not mutual agreement.

However, I have learned over the years, and most recently in particular, that when I determine that the other party is being sufficiently unreasonable and irrational and closed-minded (and it takes quite a bit to convince me of that--hope springs eternal), it is in both parties interest for me to discontinue such conterproductive interactions and thus avoid wasting any more time and energy.

Granted, those who I may view as unreasonable and irrational and closed-minded will likely view me as the unreasonable and irrational and closed-minded one. And, I am fine with that. Besides, it is not as if there is sufficient reasonableness and rationalness and open-mindedness to enable a change of minds in that regard. So, that is that, and to each their own.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Hmmm. I thought the conversation between you and Tal was interesting and enlightening. I did note with dismay the way you treated Tal, but that wasn't evidence of closedmindedness on his part. What exactly led you to believe that rational conversation wasn't possible with him? I'm genuinely interested in knowing.
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Re: Did Wade just shut down mentally?

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wenglund wrote:
Mister Scratch wrote:I have seen you bail out of multiple discussions with multiple people, Wade. Why is it that it's always *you* who's doing the bailing out? Could it be that you're suffering from a cognitive distortion when you try and claim that people "don't sufficiently grasp" what you're saying?


I am disinclined to "bail out" of conversations with people who I see as willing and able to discuss valuable things in a reasonable, informed, and rational way, because it is such a rare occurance (particularly at online discussion boards like this) and I find myself on those rare occasions being enriched and enlightened and uplifted. This is particularly true with reasonable, informed, and rational people I disagree with. Such conversations are not ended by "bailing out" on one or both sides, but by coming to a mutual understanding, if not mutual agreement.

However, I have learned over the years, and most recently in particular, that when I determine that the other party is being sufficiently unreasonable and irrational and closed-minded (and it takes quite a bit to convince me of that--hope springs eternal), it is in both parties interest for me to discontinue such conterproductive interactions and thus avoid wasting any more time and energy.

Granted, those who I may view as unreasonable and irrational and closed-minded will likely view me as the unreasonable and irrational and closed-minded one. And, I am fine with that. Besides, it is not as if there is sufficient reasonableness and rationalness and open-mindedness to enable a change of minds in that regard. So, that is that, and to each their own.

Thanks, -Wade Englund-


Huh? This is the general pattern I have seen in your posts, Wade:
1. Engage another poster you have a problem with
2. Begin making accusations, possibly including ad hominem attacks
3. Demand that you own, invented parameters be followed to a "T"
4. Insist again that the parameters, which you yourself invented, be followed
5. Claim that the other person doesn't understand
6. Claim that the other person is irrational
7. Claim that the other person is unreasonable
8. Throw in the towel

The fact that I'm even able to lay out this formula of yours speaks volumes about how often you've done it, Wade. It has become your modus operandi.
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Post by _Tal Bachman »

Hi Wade

I understand not wishing to spend time conversing with people who don't seem to have any ability to reason; but isn't it true that in our case, it rather seemed like you were the one unable to reason? I think I showed that your defenses of Mormonism rely on a rejection of how Mormonism's most authoritative voices (its scriptures and prophets and apostles) describe Mormonism. As I said, this is analogous to trying to eat oneself to keep from dying of starvation...that's not very reasonable, is it? And ignoring that when it's pointed out to you isn't either, is it?

Beyond that, I think I showed that not even you yourself believe what you claim to believe about the (in)ability to know something - to confirm this, I asked you two simple questions, which (as I predicted) you simply refused to acknowledge. And I predicted that because not just you, but so many of us at least as members, and even our loved ones now, deal with seemingly nightmarish possiblilities (like being wrong about everything most important to us in life) in just that way - we just shut them out. But to try to maintain a plausible defense of a belief in something, which has as its basis a willful ignorance, seems as unreasonable as it does counterproductive, doesn't it? And I might add, that willful ignorance just can't be obscured by you lashing out at me, or anyone else, who calls you on it. You just can't remake reality with a few snide comments or personal insults, Wade. The world just doesn't work that way.

By the way, it was you who claimed to be a Kantian, and it was also you who then almost immediately thereafter demonstrated that you knew very little about Kant. The three second Google search I performed to find a link to a good introductory article on the man you claimed to be a disciple of, but of whose philosophy you evidently know so little, I did with charitable motives for your benefit - that is, mostly since you would stop embarrassing yourself (not because my understanding of Kant's [failed] attempt at coming up with some respectable version of Berkeleyan idealism itself was derived from a Google search). What I'm trying to say is, you accuse me of having a Google understanding of Kant - but even if that were the case, it would still be far more than what you yourself already have of him, as you yourself have shown. That's why I sent you a link!

And in fact, now that I think about this all, I don't even know why I'm typing this. How dumb I must sound trying to explain what you yourself have already made so obvious...

For what it's worth, here is the excerpt from the other interview thread, in which I asked you those two simple questions. I post it here so you can ignore it again, just in case it is still unclear to anyone reading this what defending Mormonism really always comes down to in the end:

You asked me quite a few questions during my interview with you. Let me ask you a couple here then:

1.) True of false - the earth is shaped like a square block, twenty miles by twenty miles by twenty miles, but with a 10,000 foot protruding triangular appendage emerging from just below equatorial Guinea.

2.) True or false - two plus two equals seven.

Since you seem sensitive to "anti-Mormon traps" or whatever, let me explain how my questions work.

If you choose "false" for either question, you show everyone that you in fact do believe you can know something with certainty, contrary to what you have said in your post. This would reveal that you are in a very confused state.

If, however, you choose "true" for either of these questions, you reveal that you are indistinguishable from any common madman, and so ought to considered one. If you begin qualifying by saying "it depends on what we mean by 'mile' and 'square' and 'earth' and 'foot', you also reveal yourself to be very much confused, or just plain nuts. And if you ignore the question altogether (I'm betting on this last option), you reveal that you indeed have enough of your wits about you to recognize that you are sunk if you dare give any answer (whew - you're not nuts!) - but of course, that awareness (evidenced by your refusal to answer) also just confirms that your statements on the impossibility of knowledge (or "absolute knowledge" if you'd like) are wrong, and that even you at some level know that.

Two simple questions, that any normal person would have no trouble answering. But will you answer? I doubt it.


If I may make a suggestion here:

Simply ignoring this again will make you look nuts, as will answering "true", or lashing out at me again. I think the best option then is to answer "false", since all that would mean is that you'd have to acknowledge that your views on the possibility of knowledge need revising, and really, this is no big deal at all. We could even try to come up with a good theory of knowledge together...

Just a suggestion.
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Post by _beastie »

Tal,

You may be interested in a conversation I had with Ben McGuire on the Z board. Ben describes himself as a postmodernist and believes Mormonism is compatible with that philosophy.

http://p080.ezboard.com/fpacumenispages ... =513.topic

by the way, my initial comments about the incompatibility of postmodernism (which Wade does not ascribe to but seems to adhere to in his conversation with you) were triggered by Wade's statements on your interview thread.
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Post by _Tal Bachman »

Beastie, I didn't see any posts by you. Do you post under a different name there? Or did I just miss it?

A few questions this all raises for me:

1.) Which theory of knowledge best explains our accumulation of...well...knowledge about the world, which we undoubtedly have more of now, than we did, say, five hundred years ago?;

2.) Is it not the case that adherents to "post-modern" theories of knowledge, or in other words, theories of knowledge which deny the possibility of knowledge (very obviously a contradiction in terms) ought to be considered irrationalists; and if so, are they even worth conversing with? What possible value is there in trying to convince someone, or understand the world with, someone who starts by knowingly embracing an impossibility? Anyone who can believe that what by definition is impossible, is true, has already manifested a rejection of all the constraints of logic, evidence, and rationality. It's like arguing with someone who begins by asserting that two is equivalent to seven;

3.) Is it not the case that anyone who claims that a theory of knowledge which denies the possibility of knowledge, and Mormonism (which of course claims that knowledge is not only possible, but guaranteed to the sincere searcher) are compatible, either doesn't understand such theories of knowledge, or Mormonism, or is (in this area anyway) confused to the point of near-insanity?

See...it seems like no point of logic we might ever raise, no item of evidence we might ever produce, no carefully crafted rational argument we might ever make, could ever make a whit of difference to the dogmatic believer in magic, to the madman, to the hopelessly (and willfully?) deluded. I think Wade's proven that himself here. And what's more is, he either isn't capable of seeing that, or doesn't care. And either way, the result is the same.

But I do think Wade ought to be credited for one thing, and that is, that with the nearly-instant recourse to insults, shutting down, distraction tactics, etc., he makes far more obvious what defense of Mormonism really rests on in the end, than do the FARMS folks, who tend to obscure things with their extreme verbosity, pedantry, more complicated circumlocutions, etc. This might be inadvertent on his part, but again the effect is still the same. And while I know it sounds terrible and presumptuous, I guess I understand more now why those who have acknowledged to themselves that Mormonism cannot be what it claims, almost to a man express pity for Wade, rather than irritation.

It is hard to believe now that I spent the first thirty five years of my life as a devout member of a religion which, its apologists keep proving, has no other defense in the end other than a willful closing of eyes and plugging of ears. I suppose I must have done the same thing myself, though I'm not even sure I was conscious of it.

Ah well, live and learn.

What's the ZMLB board like or whatever it's called like?
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Post by _beastie »

Tal,

Sorry for not alerting you first- I post as Sevenofniine on the Z board. So that was me slowly going insance....

and actually, Ben is a really good guy. I like what I know of him, personally. It's just that he's burdening himself with an impossible task - trying to reconcile postmodernism with the authoritative truth claims of Mormonism. They just aren't compatible. He agreed with that at the beginning of the thread, and then spent pages trying to prove that isn't a problem.

As far as knowledge of any supernatural being is concerned, I could be called a quasi-postmodernist. Although I lack belief in anything supernatural, including a godbeing, my first and foremost stance on the matter is that even if one existed, it is not possible for human beings to "know" anything reliable about that being. (including its existence, once naturalist possibilities are factored into the equation). So when I'm being careful I refer to myself as an "agnostic atheist".

I also agree that in attempting to understand any statement made by individuals from a culture foreign to our own, it is crucial to understand that background culture. I also agree that there are natural limitations to how much any person can truly understand a foreign culture without having being raised in it.

But postmodernism takes these common-sense ideas and runs amuck with them. I tried to explain that to Ben with talking about the utility of Newtonian physics, while we realize that Newtonian physics is not an entirely reliable model. It breaks down at the macro or micro level. But in practical terms, for daily life, it works just fine to give us reliable enough information to maneuver in our world.

I have the same opinion about human communications. Sure, unless we inhabit the other person's mind and have lived his/her life, we don't have a certain guarantee that we understand any communication he/she offers. But communication, with the caveat of background cultural information, is reliable enough for us to maneuver through our world. Postmodernism takes a reality and makes it so extreme that it creates unnecessary issues.

So I'm not entirely critical of the kernel of common sense behind postmodernism. I'm critical of using it as a model to navigate through life just as I would be critical of someone insisting Newtonian physics is useless.

See...it seems like no point of logic we might ever raise, no item of evidence we might ever produce, no carefully crafted rational argument we might ever make, could ever make a whit of difference to the dogmatic believer in magic, to the madman, to the hopelessly (and willfully?) deluded.


I call these type of people True Believers, in the Eric Hoffer sense of the word. (not in the casual sense of "TBM" we exmos like to throw around). True Believers are absolutely impenetrable. Hoffer speculates that is due to the complete enmeshment of any feelings of self worth with the belief system. I have some great Hoffer quotes but seem to have lost my file (I'm "organizing" and finally putting all my floppy discs on flash drives and now can't find some files...arg). If I come up with them later, I'll share them.

Zion's board has an interesting history. Years ago the Tanners had a message board on their site and LDS believers starting posting defenses of the faith on the board in response to critics. I wasn't there and never saw the board so I don't know exactly what happened, but the believers on ZLMB state that the moderating was intolerably biased towards the EV, and the LDS were unfairly censured and/or banned. So a few of the LDS left that board and created a board, ZLMB, that was designed expressly to allow both sides to have input. The moderating was dedicated to being unbiased as much as humanly possible. Both believers and nonbelievers were invited to be moderators. (I was a moderator at one point, for example.) For a couple of years, the board was very lively and had interesting dialogues between believer and nonbeliever (you can see threads in the archives.) Initially, most of the nonbeliever critics were EVs from the Tanner board. However, over time, secular critics such as myself found our way to the board, and the ratio within nonbelievers shifted to secularists. In addition, the number of critics grew. Through all of this, however, the moderators did their best to simply enforce clearly stated rules without regard to belief or lack thereof.

However, eventually believers became very dissatisfied with the board. The board was now "overrun" by secular critics and LDS felt attacked. Despite the best attempts at nonbiased moderation, LDS fled the board in large numbers, fleeing to the FAIR boar. One of its founders was a very disgruntled former ZLMB poster, a believer, who had been chastised several times by moderators and openly rebelled against the moderating climate - this poster, Juliann, openly courted believers on Z to leave Z for FAIR, where they would be more protected. Although some believers resisted this and felt insulted by the insinuation that believers need "protection" more than the even handed application of clear rules, the vast majority fled Z and now post on FAIR.

The FAIR moderators are very much like the Tanner moderators in that they are openly biased to one viewpoint. Their goal is not open dialogue, but controlled dialogue. There are no clearly stated rules, but moderators simply rule by their sense of the situation. Moderators are, as far as I know, exclusively LDS and are extremely biased against critics. Large numbers of critics were recently banned in the "November purge" - some were very innocuous posters, but were critics. Some critics remain, and we will see if the moderating becomes less biased as MAD, but I doubt it.

So the final irony is that FAIR became the Tanner board, in the end - the very place that ZLMB was designed to counter. It's funny in that way that only real life can be.

Z is now pretty dead. The only reason I posted my postmodern thread there was to give Juliann and Ben an opportunity to respond to my criticisms on a board that is not largely inhabited by critics, like this one. Juliann refused to post there, but instead posted an inane, largely irrelevant commentary on the FAIR (now MAD) board. She did not address any point of substance.

Anyway, that's Z's history. Until very recently even the moderators fled Z, but a few have returned and seem to want to restore Z to its former glory. It won't happen, because most believers prefer the protection biased moderating will give them.

But hey, it's hard to blame them. They are handicapped by having to defend what is very nearly indefensible. Kind of like how Young Earthers would need a protected moderating climate to debate geologists. ;)
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Re: Did Wade just shut down mentally?

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wenglund wrote:I had more valuable and uplifting things to do

Wade, I don't know you, and I really don't want a fight. But claiming the moral high ground, and then disengaging from an argument is tantamount to conceding victory to an opponent. The "I'm taking my toys and going home" argument doesn't cut it in the real world Wade, it really doesn't. It's too bad a man as intelligent as you would have to resort to such tactics. It's actually sad.
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Post by _moksha »

Tal Bachman wrote:
1.) True of false - the earth is shaped like a square block, twenty miles by twenty miles by twenty miles, but with a 10,000 foot protruding triangular appendage emerging from just below equatorial Guinea.

An excited Bizarro World? Must have been thinking of Juliann in that little black leather outfit again.
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Post by _beastie »

An excited Bizarro World? Must have been thinking of Juliann in that little black leather outfit again.


Mocker!!!! ;)
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Post by _keene »

Tal Bachman wrote:
2.) True or false - two plus two equals seven.


Actually, in non-euclidian geometry, and in many instances of programming, electrical engineering, and when dealing with any kind of theoretical physics, two plus two can equal anything, including seven.

:)
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