RayAgostini wrote:Kishkumen wrote:
Wow! That's news to me, Ray. It would also be news to my active, faithful LDS friends, of whom you are most definitely not one. In fact, you are not even LDS. You are an ex-Mormon who champions the cause of polemicists who attacked their fellow religionists from BYU campus. Hey, that's fine, Ray. If that is who you are and who you want to be, then you are welcome to it. My reading of Greg Smith's hit piece was entirely fair.
So you say. I don't consider it a "hit piece", but at least now I understand what you classify as a "hit piece".
Smith is a lot more tactful than you are.
This last bit here, that I've underlined, gets at one of the biggest reasons why, in my experience, so many outsiders (and heck, insiders, too) distrust or dislike Mormons: it's this sense that you're being attacked or undermined, even though the LDS attacking you is, by all outward appearances, being totally nice. (Though "nice" is, I think, debatable w/r/t to the Smith article.) EAllusion once characterized this sort of thing as "hatred with a smile," which seemed just about perfect to me. Another example can be seen in Margaret Toscano's segment on the PBS
The Mormons film, where she says that, in the wake of her excommunication, all the elders in the room stood and wanted to shake her hand. She says that it felt like a "violent" act.
"[I]f, while hoping that everybody else will be honest and so forth, I can personally prosper through unethical and immoral acts without being detected and without risk, why should I not?." --Daniel Peterson, 6/4/14