liz3564 wrote:I have no control of what Dan decides to post on his blog. I had no idea he was going to do that. That was his call.
And I guess you have to ask yourself: what kind of person pulls crap like that?
Seriously.
If this were a mere lapse, it would be one thing. Unfortunately, it seems to be part of the package. Daniel gets ticked off, loses his patience, or what have you, and the poorly aimed character assassination begins. My most recent clash with him on Facebook is an excellent example. I was rude about a political comment he made, and he basically imploded right on David Bokovoy's wall, implying very strongly that I am Doctor Scratch in front of everyone in a place where I do use my real name, as you know.
Well, I am not Doctor Scratch. Daniel and I may have our differences, but that does not make me someone who I am not. And yet he doesn't seem to care whether that is true, or whether Jason Echols has anything to do with anything, because the only thing that matters in all of this, in his eyes, is himself.
He cared not a bit how Jason Echols might have felt about being accused falsely.
liz3564 wrote:If my suggestion to simply unfriend someone to play it safe is a form of eroding trust, then so be it. I don't really see how it is. All I really did to Dan was to state the obvious. It is really something that Dan should have thought of doing himself as far as precautions go. The only reason I even mentioned to him that it might be a good idea to unfriend Jason is because he had indicated that he didn't know who Jason was. He is not that familiar with how Facebook works, and I was just trying to help him out. My thought was....if Jason is NOT Scratch, it is not going to hurt anything for Dan to unfriend him because he doesn't know him anyway. If Jason IS Scratch, then it is a good idea to unfriend him. Remember, I am NOT the one who suggested to Dan that Jason Echols was Scratch. Pahoran did that. The only thing I did was to point out the obvious as far as what would make sense regarding who he keep as a friend on Facebook.
I think the problem is that your connection with Daniel and Pahoran is tighter than most people are comfortable with. That is what erodes trust, not what you may or may not have said regarding Daniel's list of Facebook friends. As I said, that is all your business. I am just observing that having certain kinds of friends will impact how others feel about you. I think that a lot of the discomfort with having you as a mod came down to exactly that.
"Petition wasn’t meant to start a witch hunt as I’ve said 6000 times." ~ Hanna Seariac, LDS apologist