cognitiveharmony wrote:Wow. Just finished reading this thread. I don't have much hope for the intellectually dishonest apologists out there but this will certainly be the catalyst for many who are questioning to make their exit.
There's an essay over on RfM entitled "How Obvious Does It Have to Be?" (or something similar to that). Over the years, I've heard a lot of people saying they'd discovered the final nail in the coffin of Mormonism, but it never seems to make much difference. People are going to believe what they believe, no matter what.
To me, the evidence is overwhelmingly against Mormonism, but people tell me all the time they think the evidence points in its favor. It's not that we both can't be right. It's that we see things differently, and unless that changes, very little of what they say to me will make me change my mind, and vice versa.
I don't think Mormonism is true, and I think it's quite obviously not true, but I still leave out the slimmest of possibilities because I know I can't prove anything. And I also recognize that what other people believe is none of my business. It's not my job (or desire) to get anyone to stop believing; in fact, I wouldn't wish that painful experience on anyone. If Mormonism makes people happy, that's fine with me.
If, however, someone comes to me with issues about the church, of course I'll always answer their questions honestly.