Jersey Girl wrote:I'm ready.
I feel strongly that I have to stand on principle. I think you can tell that I dislike this topic. I think you can probably tell that I believe that life begins at conception. It doesn't matter to me if you or others believe that or not. That's what I believe. Still, I cannot impose my beliefs on those who believe differently. The moment I deny a woman her right to choose is the day that I take away her personhood.
Therefore I think that the door to choice must remain open in all cases, regardless of gestational stage of development. The choice belongs to the woman.
I hate that decision, however, it best represents what I believe to be true and ethical.
All of it.
Fair enough, and I appreciate your openness to discuss a topic you dislike with candor. I tend to agree that as a man, I have almost no reasonable way of inserting myself into the debate without huge blindspots. I can't know what it's like to carry a child or what it means to have such significant personal consequences for having sex when a man has almost no physical obligation once the deed is done so to speak.
But I do think that the idea "life begins at conception" is a misleading way to think about the subject. I believe that there are many definitions of life that would include not only the fertilized egg but even the gametes or sperm and unfertilized egg. The definition of life looks crystal clear out where the majority of living things are but gets very fuzzy once one tries to precisely draw the line. When people use that phrase in regards to the abortion debate, there is also an implied "human" attached to it at the front end. But there are serious biological issues with doing so. After conception as mitosis begins, one could theoretically manipulate those cells to continue to split into multiple separate pieces that could all become individual human beings. Identical twins are a short version of this happening. So were there always two human beings there all along? Or is there something about what it means to be a human being that the zygote just can't quite yet capture?