Stem wrote:Yes folks, last year wife and I got home from Church one day, after many years of struggling and for some reason trying to make it work, realizing it simply wasn't working for us, said, "we're done". It felt pretty natural for us.
It's hard to definitively say I'm out, even though I largely don't believe any of it. I still show up from item to time out of curiosity and as a means to say hi to people I otherwise don't run into. I'm weird like that. Feel some weird remaining affinity for it all. Wife hasn't as much as touched her feet on the property, though. Kids are happy as clams we stopped going.
Hey, Stem. This brings back a lot of memories. My wife and I left in 2006 and it happened in quite a similar day. At the end of one Sunday meeting, my wife handed me her temple recommend and asked me to hand it to the bishop. There was a single meeting with the bishop and one of his counselors after that, but once they found out that I was attending the Community of Christ on occasion they pretty much left us alone.
After we moved, I started to attend occasionally the local LDS ward with the kids or on my own, but my wife has not attended. I quit going altogether when they instituted the policy of not baptizing the children of cohabiting or married gay folk. That was the final straw for me.
It was not like I had fully believed in Mormonism since about 1999/2000, but the process of exiting was not a quick one for me. It was much faster for my wife, who suddenly binged on Mormon history reading and then decided she was done with it. To this day I do not feel like an ex-Mormon. I do feel like an ex-LDS person. It is mostly the LDS Church that I have a beef with. Yes, I do not believe in the traditional sense, but that is not the deal-breaker that the Church's participation in the Culture Wars is.
"Petition wasn’t meant to start a witch hunt as I’ve said 6000 times." ~ Hanna Seariac, LDS apologist