canpakes wrote:mikwut -
If your parents and grandparents told you during all of your young and formative years that you had a Cherokee ancestor, would you have (1) believed them, or (2) possibly repeated it to anyone else? Is it reasonable behavior to have done so?
I would have believed them and shared the information with others. I would have shared it with friends and I would have passed it on to my own children.
At what point can it be responsibly claimed by someone else that you might be ‘lying’ about it?
It can only be claimed as a lie when one has discovered truth and continues to repeat untruth.
How would you rectify that situation with certainty? How could you have proven or disproven the claim?
If I am not mistaken (and I could be) Warren did do a DNA kit with specific results that included a tiny percentage of NA blood ties. Right?
So in my own family history, stories were passed down to me as well, and on to my own children. As it turned out through my genealogical research, all the stories turned out to be true. All of them. :-)
I discovered more details and answered quite a few pending questions. I also discovered a family member that I never heard about. He was my GGM's first child, born out of wedlock in a poor house in Glasgow. I discovered why he might have been born in a poor house and discovered other details about him.
When I came upon this information, my family story was adjusted to accommodate his part of the story and was shared with every other living family member that I have.
That's what you do with the information. Who discovered the additional details about Warren's family? If she knows about this as surely she must, has she denied them?
If she's ignored them, maybe what looks like ignoring to us is really Warren processing the fact that her family story is significantly different than she thought it was. And, she is doing this under a magnifying glass with a schedule that must be heavier than any of us here could have.
Don't we all deserve time to process new information and adjust?
I think she needs time to mull it around. She can't tell us what she thinks about it until she knows for herself what she thinks.