IHQ wrote:But unfortunately there’s no way to show that God is behind our lived experience of learning from adversity. It could simply be how an organism survives and grows and proliferates on planet earth, and humans have been relatively quick to learn the lessons of experiential adversity.
I think Marcus makes a brilliant point about the problem of trying to explain it, and the absurd contortions Mormons tie themselves into trying to explain it, such as in the "wrong road" talk. There might be wisdom in quiet acceptance vs. always coming up with a desperate and annoying answer. Mormons even go so far as to have patriarchal blessings rescue the conditions of disabled children by making them fallen soldiers of the war in heaven, where their kid was so powerful that Satan would carry out his grudge in full force if the child were more capable in earth life. Your disabled child as a Catholic is just due to bad luck, sorry, but mine is because he was a general on the front lines fighting Satan's angels in the pre-existence. There are ways in which Mormonism creates the everything-is-about-me universe beyond that of other religions.
My first thought to go against Teresa was to suggest Calvinism. Okay, Teresa, suppose you're predestined for hell such that "God's plan" will work out just as you claim, it just doesn't involve your life ever getting explained in a way that's better, but getting explained in a way that's a whole lot worse. Part of the point to MG is that in a world of crooked lines, and accepting crooked lines, you're not really accepting them as crooked unless you accept the possibility that the straight version doesn't end with an apologetic for your church. He's just getting in front of the problem pretending there is real ambiguity in order to say that ambiguity is a feature, therefore, he doesn't need to answer it.
My second thought about Teresa, however, was holy crap, she just might be okay going to hell if that's God's will! The problem with quiet acceptance is we can't really define in advance what it is that you're accepting. Perhaps the 27th wife of Brigham Young was quiet about it, but the 28th wife came up with trite arguments to justify it. Well, it's possible that bad as the arguments might be, they demonstrate the tension, the uneasiness, and the 28th wife might be the one more likely to escape.
Maybe I can go a little further and suggest we all just accept the definition of “God’s purpose” being simply that we become “better”; spouses, children, siblings, neighbours, friends, citizens, employees etc. and leave it at that.
On the one hand, it avoids MG desperation, but on the other, wife 27 might just take that advice and be the best wife 27 she could. Perhaps for her circumstances, whose to say that would be wrong, but it would be hard to fault wife 28 for being a terrible 28th wife and trying to escape. MG certainly doesn't represent the only conservative Mormon voice. I had a bishop who absolutely loathed gospel intellectualism. He was also my seminary teacher for one year. He didn't like my dad because dad was a student of the mysteries. This bishop had lots of cutesy things to say that always just came back to simple "faith and repentance". He was quite good in his role -- not dumb by any means. During my mission interview, my interest in Nibley got brought up and he was very understanding. He got past it by telling a story of somebody he knew who was gospel scholar with a massive library, he was the ward intellectual and all that. Well, years down the road, he just stopped. And over the years, he quietly gave away his books. He wasn't stupid, he knows where this leads more often than not. I'm sure he knew where it would lead for me, and I'm pretty sure he blamed my dad for it, although in so many words. I know they had a clash or two about what to do about me. And my bishop, unfortunately, was more right than he was wrong.
Just as this board would have stoned my dad if he were to ever post here, if I were to post the couple of papers I wrote in college using existentialism like MG, Kierkegaard and whatnot to justify and expound upon Mormonism, I wouldn't be received very well and that stuff was pretty embarrassing and I doubt I kept any of it anyway. But, Had I not gone through that stage, then I'd likely still be Mormon. Had I taken my bishop's advice I wouldn't have overthought it, and tried to be a good ward member and do my thing like Teresa suggested.
Lost Gospel of Thomas 1:8 - And Jesus said, "what about the Pharisees? They did it too! Wherefore, we shall do it even more!"