unny. I find myself asking whether died in the wool skeptics are living in the State of Denial also. I guess it goes both ways. How many here may have had unrealistic expectations...even after having found out that the church has been whitewashing its history...and were not able to make significant, yet reasonable, paradigm shifts? Denying that it was/possible and even reasonable to do so?
A judgement or series of judgements were made and then...story over.
Hey MG...
I think the question comes down to, what is a "reasonable" paradigm shift. ;-)
How much can one shift? How much can one expand the box before one finally says, "wait a minute, this is nonsense"?
How much expansion can one make before it becomes unreasonable?
The other question is, why? Why keep expanding the box to remain inside? Why keep contorting/twisting truth/doctrine/teachings to remain a believer? (Not just in Mormonism but in any religion)?
For example, should a Scientologists who starts questioning her religion, keep trying to figure out ways to make it seem/appear true? Why? Should a FLDS continue to shift paradigms even when he comes to realize that there are some serious questions/problems/untruths in his doctrine?
Why?
At what point does the expansion of the box, or the shift in the paradigm become so far from the actual doctrine/truth, that it is no longer recognizable as the actual doctrine/truth?
My personal experience is that I spent years shifting paradigms, trying to fit a square peg in a round hole, trying expand my definitions/ideas to keep them within the LDS framework, but there came a time when it became ridiculous to keep trying, not to mention mentally and emotionally unhealthy and exhausting for me. ;-)
Just to be clear, I understand why it is valuable for some folks who have family dynamics that make it impossible to release their religious beliefs (the LDS church among many others), to remain in their culture and belief system. I'm thinking more about one's personal journey.
~dancer~