Daniel Peterson wrote:truth dancer wrote:I think this thread demonstrates part of the problem many have with the church.
While you do not seem to understand why others have a problem with this sort of behavior, they do.
I question whether the population here -- extravagantly disposed to see problems in virtually everything the Church teaches or does -- is significantly representative of very many people beyond. My sense is that it is not.
Actually, I think that the bulk of people would/do find the SCMC to be extremely disquieting. I was once invited to post on CARM in order to detail what I've learned concerning the SCMC. Certainly, the CARMites (and think of them what you will, but they *do* somewhat represent a rather significant chunk of the U.S. population) found the very notion of the SCMC to be anti-Christian and anti-American. To adduce another bit of evidence: Jon Krakauer resoundingly denounced the SCMC as an "Orwellian" organization. I wonder: Would the readers of
Under the Banner of Heaven be more inclined to believe DCP, or to believe Krakauer?
truth dancer wrote:It might be helpful as apologists and leaders interact with non-believers or questioning members to at the very least acknowledge that people generally do not like being misled, or manipulated.
The man with whom I spoke was neither misled nor manipulated.
According to you, the man vocally expressed his fear/distrust of the SCMC. And yet, there you sat, smugly contented in your knowledge that you were "ironically" functioning as an SCMC "agent."
truth dancer wrote:Those who are not believers in the LDS church look upon your example, and others of which we have heard as very inappropriate.
All of them? Most of them? Many of them? Three of them?
In any sizeable population, a certain number will believe that the government is controlled by the Masons or the Jesuits, that the moon landing was faked on a NASA soundstage in Houston, that George W. Bush ordered the attacks on 9/11, and that Jim Carrey can be endured for more than five minutes at a stretch.
Interesting that you mention Jim Carrey. I'd be willing to be that, if the man had been told that you were working for the SCMC, he would have reacted rather like Carrey's character does at the end of
The Truman Show.
truth dancer wrote:While you disagree, perhaps you could at the very least accept the fact that others find this sort of behavior, while not an outright lie, dishonest and misleading.
I don't deny that some others do. Several
here do.
I've tried to reason with you. If I hadn't recognized that you find "this sort of behavior . . . dishonest," I wouldn't have bothered.
I simply doubt that many in the general population of Latter-day Saints or non-Latter-day Saints would take this very seriously.
On the basis of any evidence? Or on the basis of your obviously biased opinion?
truth dancer wrote:Even without knowing this man, my guess is he would not have been quite so happy to meet with you if he knew you were meeting with him at the request of the SCMC. In fact I doubt he would have even met based on previous conversations.
I was there, and I think you're wrong. But actual knowledge of the actual situation, like actually reading books before commenting on them, doesn't seem to be very highly valued here.
Yes, you were there, and you stated that the man expressed his distrust and fear of the SCMC.
truth dancer wrote:You clearly gave the impression, by not disclosing the full truth, that you were not involved with the SCMC (let's not play word games here...).
"Involved" with the SCMC? I'd never heard from them before and have never heard from them since. The secretary of the SCMC called and asked me to visit with this fellow. That was it. As "involvement" goes, that's pretty weak stuff.
It simply underscores the secretive and mercenary nature of the SCMC.
truth dancer wrote:I understand you would have disclosed the truth if you were clearly and directly asked but in my opinion, knowing this man would not want the SMCS involved, and not telling him you were asked by the SCMC, he was misled.
This is every bit as serious as sending a boy across the school gym to ask a lonely girl to dance, but suggesting that he not tell her that he was asked to do it. Are there some potential problems in such a situation? Yes, but they're not insuperable. Is it a crime and an outrage? Come on.
I think there is quite a big difference between a kid at a prom dance and a highly secretive, absolutist, authoritarian religion. There is also a big difference between a public dance, and an isolated interrogation which took place over a space of
four hours.