Nomad wrote:I haven't bothered to read the entire thread. Just scanned it. I find it hard to believe anyone is disputing the historical fact that Joseph Smith engaged in plural marriage and that at least some of those marriages were "consummated" and that he, on and off, kept Emma in the dark about what he was doing in order to avoid the conflict it produced in their relationship.
As far as I'm concerned, I don't think any of the facts surrounding the implementation of plural marraige reflect poorly on Joseph Smith. Not to say that it was all neat and tidy. It wasn't. How could it have been? But I think he did his best, under difficult circumstances, to comply with the commandments that had been given to him. I think Emma smith was quite a difficult person at times. I empathize with her trials and tribulations in life, but I also think she struggled with a lot of things like pride and desires for status and riches, etc. She alludes to some of those things in the letter Nevo (I think it was Nevo) cited earlier in this thread. so even she apparently recognized some of her problems.
Anyway, I don't see what the big deal is about polygamy. It has never bothered me. I think it served its purpose. I don't think it's coming back in our lifetimes. But I have no doubt it's a way of life for some (those who choose it) in the eternal world.
I have no problem with that. As I said, I've been told that what you acknowledge above is a "historical fact" is really just me inventing and misusing evidence, when I know there is clear "counter-evidence" to show that Joseph never married women without Emma's knowledge and consent.
I don't care if you or anyone else believes Joseph was doing the best he could under difficult circumstances. Once upon a time, I would have agreed with you. But it's ridiculous to dispute the facts, as bcspace and Droopy have done. But I'm quite sure the next time this subject comes up, they'll accuse me or whoever states the obvious of lying and distorting the truth.
Welcome back, by the way. I was beginning to wonder what happened to my adoring fan. ;-)