liz3564 wrote:If you want to "maintain the peace" in your household, and your wife is staunchly TBM, there is NO amount of theological reasoning that is going to suffice.
I do (want to maintain the peace) and she is (staunchly TBM), so I don't even try to reason things out theologically with her. It's hard enough to get her to engage with me on a political argument, so when I'm in the mood to debate with her I
usually do debate with her over something political.
I think she knows I don't believe there's a need for God to have created
practically anything, while at the same time she looks at the miracle of a human baby and can't escape the opinion that someone must have intelligently designed said baby; I think in this matter she realizes we just agree to disagree. (I don't have a belief that
God did not create said baby; I just don't see a compelling argument that
God did create the baby from the evidence at hand.)
liz3564 wrote:If keeping peace with the family is your primary concern, then I suggest you do what I have done and attempt to find peace within a NOM theological philosophy.
The problem with that is that
I'm not a NOM. My wife won't debate theology with me, but a couple of my home teaching families will, and I've found my local elder's quorum welcoming my sometimes not orthodox viewpoints.
liz3564 wrote:I do believe in Jesus Christ, and I believe in enough of the core functions of the gospel of Jesus Christ that I am comfortable worshipping Christ within the walls of faith I have grown up in, even if I don't believe in many of the tenets.
I believe in Jesus Christ too. I don't believe in
all the tenets of the LDS Church. For example I don't believe in the global flood described in Genesis. If there was a flood at all I think it was probably regional. But I think it's pretty safe to say I believe in the
vast majority of LDS tenets.