Hasa Diga Eebowai wrote:
LDSToronto's reply appears to be minimizing the death of a member of DCP's family though and I don't think grief can be measured in the number of weeks or the number of blog posts a person does or doesn't make. Maybe he didn't intend it, but it definitely comes across that way. I can't judge people's hearts only they themselves know what they intended but if anyone did use it as an opportunity to make an attack on DCP then I personally find that extremely inconsiderate and reprehensible.
Hasa,
Let me help you deal with your moral rectitude.
Dan mentioned his brother's death in the context of the larger debate over the Dehlin affair. Why Dan brings his dead brother into the debate is a matter of speculation; I suspect Dan wanted to leverage the halo effect - we feel sympathy for Dan's loss, and extend that sympathy to Dan's argument.
My comment served two purposes. First, stemelbow insinuated that the death of Dan's brother was public knowledge because someone divulged a private email. I showed this was untrue since Dan had written a tribute to his brother some weeks earlier. Second, I wanted to show that Dan was as prolific as ever and the loss had not seemed to have an impact on his ability to post or, clearly, waddle into debates.
Read my comment again - I mention nothing about how much grief Dan is feeling, only that he appears to be coping fine. You are stretching a long way if you feel this is an attack. If you want a real attack, throw a stone on this board and you'll hit a DCP-aimed invective easily.
It is known because Dan Peterson blogged about it and posted the link over on MD&D:
http://dcpsicetnon.blogspot.ca/2012/03/ ... -2012.html
His brother died 6 weeks ago. While sad, he seems to have been able to manage the grief as evidenced by his 127 blog posts since his death and numerous message board posts.
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