Nelsons daughter and son-in-law accused of sex abuse

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Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:How does one get sewn into a corpse? Like, that logistically doesn't work. Anyone who seems to be pro-Snow want to at least admit that Teal Swan, with Dr. Snow's help, was full of ____?

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Considering the number of times kids that Snow counseled claimed to have been fed feces, that is an apt turn of phrase, because I would argue that she wasn't full of _____?
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Mary wrote:2. Snow interviewed the female Doe's because she was asked to as the babysitter had been involved in the other Bountiful case. (Lemmie feels that babysitter is entirely innocent...I'm not so sure)


If I recall, the accusation against that babysitter had its origin with Dr. Snow. Did it not?

3. The female Doe's admitted to Snow that the female baby sitter and two older boys independently picked out from a year book had engaged in sexual play with them.


Getting people to pick faces out of a yearbook (or line-up) is very, very unreliable and easily manipulated. Unless we can see exactly how the pictures were presented and picked, I would have a low level of confidence in that as evidence. Heck, it's entirely possible that the babysitter had boys come for innocuous visits and the kids saw them then. When I was a teenager, I visited friends who were babysitting more than once.

4. One of the Doe's told her mother of the touching parties. Snow wasn't involved. Snow did not implant that memory. It came from the female Doe.


Check the timeline. That daughter had already had several sessions with Snow.

5. One of the Doe's asked her mother what the difference was between what happened at the parties and daddy's marriage lessons. Carstensen's involvement was acknowledged by the female Doe to her mother. It wasn't a false memory implanted by Snow in this case.


The kids had already been counseling with Dr. Snow for a month. I think there is plenty of reason to believe that Snow was the origin for those claims. Yes, Carstensen may have been a child molester, but considering what Snow did in cases where there was nothing going on, I can only imagine what would have happened if she ever "counseled" kids who had actually been abused.


6. Bill Carstensen admits in a recording (that Cinepro rejects) that the baby sitter, Miles and Bill and Dan attended touching parties.
I don't "reject" the recording. I simply pointed out the many, many indicators that the interview is suspect. Especially the fact that he appears disoriented and confused. I've already pointed out the danger of false confessions and the different influences that can make people believe they've committed abuse, so I'm not sure Marion Smith's interview with Carstensen is helpful.

7. Bill is diagnosed with paedophilia at John Hopkins. His abuse has further been corroborated by the children of Mother 2, and by Marion Smith's youngest daughters who won a 2.5 million *no contest* settlement against him in the early 90s.


Like I've said, I'm not defending Carstensen. There are certainly good reasons to believe he abused his kids (and the kids of his second wife). But I don't consider Marion Smith to be a reliable narrator, and a "no contest" judgment doesn't mean you're guilty; it means you didn't fight it.

9. Ritual abuse did not seem to play a large part In this case.
The accusations against the Miles and the babysitter are ritual abuse.

10. The children of Mother 1 were medically examined at the Primary Care Hospital and the Dr there gave a medical opinion of all 4 children of sexual abuse after examining them. The Dr never recanted this medical opinion.
As I've pointed out, the common medical examination at the time is now recognized as being notoriously unreliable. So without more information on what the examination entailed, it's impossible to know how reliable we should consider that diagnosis.

11. Some of the children have had to have multiple surgeries as adults to correct some of the physical damage caused by childhood abuse.


Again, more information would be needed. But that could certainly lend credence to the claims against Carstensen.


So, I think the case of Carstensen and the Miles has to be considered on its own merits.


I agree. I think it is much more likely Carstensen abused his kids.


Another point, Cinepro keeps quoting Loftus as If she is the be all and end all on recovered, implanted or repressed memory. She isn't. Her theories have been widely criticised as unscientific, because you can't replicate childhood abuse and the way it is processed in a laboratory as Rosebud has already explained. Getting lost in a supermarket is not the same.


I've quoted Loftus, and you can look at her research. If you want to present the case against her, go ahead, unless you're just hoping everyone will take your word for it.

It's possible that the brain and its memories react totally differently to child abuse, but it's also possible that it doesn't. Right now, I'm guessing that it doesn't.
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This is going to be a ride for sure.

We have one group of people that thinks it's so unlikely a teenager might sexually abuse kids that they're sure any report of such a thing is a false memory implantated by a quack therapist, and that's more sickened by the way the therapist spoke to the children while the false memories were being reported than much of anything else... and another side that's sickened by sexual abuse of children and forcing children to drink feces.

My prediction is that a lot of people are going to have a hard time as they gain more information about how bad the real world is.
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Rosebud wrote:This is going to be a ride for sure.

We have one group of people that thinks it's so unlikely a teenager might sexually abuse kids that they're sure any report of such a thing is a false memory implantated by a quack therapist, and that's more sickened by the way the therapist spoke to the children while the false memories were being reported than much of anything else... and another side that's sickened by sexual abuse of children and forcing children to drink feces.

My prediction is that a lot of people are going to have a hard time as they gain more information about how bad the real world is.


That's literally not what's happening.

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Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:
Rosebud wrote:This is going to be a ride for sure.

We have one group of people that thinks it's so unlikely a teenager might sexually abuse kids that they're sure any report of such a thing is a false memory implantated by a quack therapist, and that's more sickened by the way the therapist spoke to the children while the false memories were being reported than much of anything else... and another side that's sickened by sexual abuse of children and forcing children to drink feces.

My prediction is that a lot of people are going to have a hard time as they gain more information about how bad the real world is.


That's literally not what's happening.

- Doc


We'll see...... ;)
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Rosebud wrote:This is going to be a ride for sure.

We have one group of people that thinks it's so unlikely a teenager might sexually abuse kids that they're sure any report of such a thing is a false memory implantated by a quack therapist, and that's more sickened by the way the therapist spoke to the children while the false memories were being reported than much of anything else... and another side that's sickened by sexual abuse of children and forcing children to drink feces.

My prediction is that a lot of people are going to have a hard time as they gain more information about how bad the real world is.


Uhh, you've heard of the straw man fallacy, right? I've not seen anyone here who would fit in your first group. Why can't you accurately describe the positions of the people here you disagree with? I'd be pretty surprised if anyone who posts here is not sickened by the sexual abuse of children. So why are you trying to shove folks into groups that exist only in your head?
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Doctor CamNC4Me wrote:
Rosebud wrote:This is going to be a ride for sure.

We have one group of people that thinks it's so unlikely a teenager might sexually abuse kids that they're sure any report of such a thing is a false memory implantated by a quack therapist, and that's more sickened by the way the therapist spoke to the children while the false memories were being reported than much of anything else... and another side that's sickened by sexual abuse of children and forcing children to drink feces.

My prediction is that a lot of people are going to have a hard time as they gain more information about how bad the real world is.


That's literally not what's happening.

- Doc


I'm genuinely interested in what may be brought forward if this case moves forward. Trying to keep an open mind.
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I again read through the quotes Res posted from the dissenting opinion. The part that seems most "Barbara Snow" to me is the quote about what Barbara said herself.

Dr. Snow herself admitted that she used interrogation procedures that were not intended to sift truth from error. She forthrightly admitted she was not a neutral interviewer; rather, she was "an ally for the child," "biased," and "not a fact collector like the police." She also testified that it is not her practice to videotape her sessions with children, even though that is the only possible way to evaluate her methods and the reliability of her interrogations. She also testified in effect that there was nothing in her methods that served as a standard for determining the truthfulness of the stories she produced by her interrogation. She admitted as much in answering the following question:

Q. So my question is, how does someone judge your judgment and review your version of what a child has told you?
A. Only on my report of what occurred.


It's placement in the context of a trial and trying to decide whether or not a person is guilty brings condemnation. But it sounds like something any therapist would say under oath.

I'd like to see the full transcript.

One of the joyous (yes, dripping sarcasm) experiences I've had over the last few years is sitting on stands at court and in depositions. For the depositions, that attorneys literally wrote the documents they were going to give the judge before the depositions then repetitively asked me similar questions until they got me to say exactly what they needed to put in the blanks on their documents. It reminded me of painting by numbers. They completely distorted what happened. So ridiculous.

Anyway.... back to Snow. I don't know if she was really pressuring just because it says she was pressuring. It's weird that I read, even in just what Res quoted, that she testified that she didn't record and also that a defense expert looked over the recordings and drew conclusions about the invalidity of her methods (when she herself admits she wasn't trying to get evidence that would be valid in a courtroom). Was this two different cases? Am I remembering what I read wrong? I'm on my phone so it's hard to go back and look.

And how do I know the validity of the context of what a child said from quotes taken out of an opinion. Part of that looked like the boy who everybody acknowledged was being pressured by his dad.

What I see is that the courtroom is not the right place to deal with this kind of problem. And as far as I understand, that's what the therapists in Utah decided after these cases. They moved into "We believe victims, but don't advise victims take this to court" mode.

What I still don't get is how the fact that Snow was not acting as an impartial investigator has become the main reason people discredit all the victim reports. It's not as if she was the crux of everything that happened surrounding this issue in the 80s and 90s in UTAH (I have to add the state to prevent someone from pointing out the obvious.... that she wasn't the crux of it outside of UTAH either.... as if the fact that she wasn't the crux weren't my argument in the first place). But why do Utahns use her name as the big reason why they "know" none of this really happened?

I get that none of us have seen all the evidence so none of us really know. We weren't there. (And I admit that I don't really know why some people don't seem to get that they don't know.) But the way we each respond to the pieces of information we do have says a lot about who we each are.

Snow is just some woman who played a role in some kids' lives and then became a part of some cases. Whether or not this kind of abuse does or doesn't really happen has nothing to do with her. Zero.

This is the popular logic: "Therapist admits she wasn't impartial in her questioning of children so that's proof that the children weren't abused and that the therapist played a major role in a false panic that swept UTAH into hysteria. That's how I know babysitters don't sexually abuse kids or force them to drink feces." And yes, sometimes the logic really is that reductionistic. Other information about Snow or her actions gets added. Snow. Snow. Snow.

She doesn't matter. She wasn't the only person there. There were many many people involved. A "mass" of them. (It takes a "mass" to get a "mass hysteria.")
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Meadowchik wrote:I'm genuinely interested in what may be brought forward if this case moves forward. Trying to keep an open mind.


Well. I'm no fan of Mormonism, and if there were kids subjected to ritualized sexual abuse they ought to be brought to justice. So, it's not like I'm in the tank for anyone, but holy cow. This Dr. Snow character really is something else entirely.

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What the hell are you talking about, Rosebud? When presented with evidence that a child had been abused, therapists are required to report that to law enforcement. They don’t get to advise the victim not to go to court. You keep making these broad pronouncements based on absolutely no evidence.

And if attorneys asked you the same questions over and over at a deposition, you had pretty lousy legal representation.
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