Jason Bourne wrote:
And thus the wheat and chaff are differentiated. Praise God for his wisdom.
I have always found it a sad thing when members make this statement. Do they really glory in the idea that so many of their brothers and sisters may not be with them because they are chaff? Do they really praise God as a Father that will sift his children in such a way? I know you are not a Father but I have no desire to treat my children as wheat and chaff.
I also find that it's a sad thing that there is chaff. However, I have power only to decide which I will grow to be. Putting my head in the sand and pretending that there is no chaff would be willful ignorance. Take the world as it is and hope for a better one one day.
You may have no desire to see your children this way but if one, despite all your efforts, is an irresponsible reprobate are you going to pretend that they are not?