First of all, it doesn't say "Don't get a Vasectomy without talking with your Bishop".
It says:
"The persons responsible for [the decision to get surgical sterilization] should consult with each other and with their bishop and should receive divine confirmation of their decision through prayer."Whether or not you find my paraphrasing valid would depend on your understanding of what the word "should" means in the context of a handbook of instructions. I think I ably conveyed the meaning of the paragraph.
Second, you've missed an important nuance. How would someone know to consult with the bishop on this matter unless they asked first or read the CHI? What if they ignorantly didn't give it a second thought and went ahead and did it anyway?
Good point, and one that is discussed
on a different message board.
For example, KingFolly says:
Since the Blue CHI (not sure if it's still the same color) is only for members of the Bishopric, most members don't know about this section. I had never heard of it when I got my vasectomy as a TBM and was somewhat embarrassed to read that section when being called into a bishopric later on. My BIL actually had a vasectomy scheduled and then was called as Bishop. He read the CHI immediately and cancelled the surgery. His wife was openly pissed.
Mon Jan 12, 2009 6:16 pm
Also this interesting bit of trivia:
Elective sterilization is covered by DMBA (church benefit administrators) for church employees if one of two conditions are met (1) the couple has 5 or more living children or (2) the wife is age 40 or older. Mine was pre-approved with minimal difficulty. One person thought both conditions needed to be met. When I pressed it with a supervisor it was clarified as one condition needing to be met.
Zippy
Tue Jan 13, 2009 12:52 pm
In other words, a lot of these are for people who can't govern themselves to the extent they must ask for guidance. There is no doctrine on the matter but the Church's opinion is such and such. If there was an actual doctrine about getting a vasectomy, I think it would be printed in a manual don't you?
Who said anything about "doctrine"? I was just saying that the Church recommends you talk to your bishop before getting a vasectomy. Sheesh.
