People honor and revere Abraham for agreeing to kill his son as if this is a great show of obedience.
I on the other hand do not get it. Abraham was willing to kill his son so he could gain exaltation. Where is the sacrifice in this? Where is the honor? His willingness was completely selfish in my opinion.
What would have been honorable in my mind is if Abraham refused to kill his son, and was willing to sacrifice his eternal life for his son. Now that is a great father! Maybe Abraham actually failed the test?
Similarly, Joseph Smith claimed an angel commanded him to screw other girls and women besides his wife. It occurs to me that he failed the test miserably.
What would have been honorable and worth celebrating is if Joseph refused to be unfaithful, and gave up his powerful position to keep the promise he made to his wife; to obey the commandments of God and Jesus Christ; and lived to be an example of honor and integrity while demonstrating the importance of marriage. Maybe he failed the test too!
Let's look at Nephi... did God really command him to cut off the head of Laban? Maybe. Or maybe God was testing him to see if he would obey the commandment to not kill, and to trust in God. Maybe God really was going to just give Laban a little heart attack if Nephi passed the test?
Of course I don't believe in the whole "God-is-testing-us" idea but even if it were true it seems so backward. In other words, you pass the test if you live dishonorably, cruely, and break the commandments. You fail the test if you live with honor, integrity, and obey the commandments.
Hmmm... :-)
~td~