JonasS wrote:I need therapy! Sex isn't what it's cracked up to be.
How do you know?
I don't wanna have sex on my wedding night if it's gonna hurt.
So you're planning on having it earlier?
I know I need therapy because lately I have had difficulty knowing what dreams are real and which ones aren't and so end up arguing with myself and then asking my friend if the dream was real or not to wich he responded each time with not. Also last night I fricking pooped myself almost and argued again withmyself that what was happening wasn't/was real.
I know sex isn't what it's cracked up to be because I am an armchair sexpert :P I am learning new things all the time and frankly I am somewhat dissapointed but oh well.
I was planning on marrying someone who has enough respect and love for me to consider waiting a little longer if I think it is going to hurt.
Sethbag wrote:Sex is all it's cracked up to be. Probably just not your first time. Not that it's necessarily bad, either, in fact I'd bet for most people it's still pretty fun, even the first time. I know it was for me, and I'm pretty sure it was for my wife too. That's undoubtedly thanks to the fact that I'd read some books about sex before the wedding. They were Christian or Mormon books, but still helped me have a clue going into the honeymoon.
It is something one eventually gets the hang of, and radically improves in, especially if an open mind is had, and one has a clue. Unnecessary inhibitions and hangups can be a limiting factor.