JohnStuartMill wrote:"How could the person who tells you "girl X loves you" actually know that the girl X actually loves you? This person has no more access to girl X's feelings of love (if they exist) than you do. Introducing this person who tells you "girl X loves you" can't help bridge the gap between your experiences and the subjective experiences (feelings) of girl X."
Now do you see where mfbukowski's example went off the tracks?
I am remembering now talking to you over at MADB and having the same problem.
You are really missing my point totally.
The point is that when someone tells you that someone loves you, no, they CAN'T know that what they are telling you is true. But that point is irrelevant.
Notice what I actually said:
Post subject: Re: Postmodernism and Mormonism: Part 5
PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2010 3:08 pm
Look at "I love you" vs "She loves you"
Very different statements epistemologically.
"Why do you think she loves me?" "Because she told me, and can't you see the way she looks at you when she talks to you?"
We now have a couple of reasons to think that it is perhaps true that she really does love me. Of course she could still be lying, but we have 1- been given data from another person and 2- been given an observation from that individual that they have "seen" "the way she looks at me" and that person has actually suggested that such data is verifiable for me also- ie: I should be able to also perceive that "she looks at me as if she loves me".
We have entered into an area of "objectivity" which is never obtainable when we simply as an observer look at a person who has just told us "I love you". Admittedly it is not horribly far up on the "objectivity index" but we do have some data which might indicate that she does in fact love me. If we get a second witness, and a third, and then all her friends tell me that she loves me, and I notice her acting in a certain way, I may reach a point where it is reasonable to say something like "Yes, she does love me". Third person statements are verifiable by observation.
But first person statements are not.
If I say "I love you", no one knows if it is a true statement or not except me.
Nowhere did I say that the person who said "she loves you" actually KNOWS that she loves you. In fact in the last line of the above quote, I say that the only one who can know a "subjective statement" is true is the one who makes the statement.
You are looking at this from the point of view of the "person who tells you that girl x loves you" but that is not even the point of view I am talking about.
I am talking about MY pov, not hers. I cannot know if anyone loves me or not, or if the person who tells me someone loves me is correct or not.
The entire point of my above quote is that when someone does in fact tell me that "someone loves me" what I have is an increased level of EVIDENCE that it may be true.
We have reached a higher level of evidence, however slight, that in fact someone MAY love me.
We have "upped" the level of objectivity of that belief or "hunch" or whatever you want to call it.
This is really the same point Nagel makes in his famous paper "What is it like to be a Bat"?
http://evans-experientialism.freewebspace.com/nagel.htm
While an account of the physical basis of mind must explain many things, this appears to be the most difficult. It is impossible to exclude the phenomenological features of experience from a reduction in the same way that one excludes the phenomenal features of an ordinary substance from a physical or chemical reduction of it—namely, by explaining them as effects on the minds of human observers. 4 If physicalism is to be defended, the phenomenological features must themselves be given a physical account. But when we examine their subjective character it seems that such a result is impossible. The reason is that every subjective phenomenon is essentially connected with a single point of view, and it seems inevitable that an objective, physical theory will abandon that point of view.
This last sentence is the idea that I am seeking to develop.
Linguistically the point of that last sentence is exactly what I am saying in the post in question. that there is a difference in point of view between first person (singular) statements and all others, and that any objective theory will "abandon that point of view".