Update 6/7 - New Testimony - ExMormon Scholars Testify

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Re: Update 6/7 - New Testimony - ExMormon Scholars Testify

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thought this was interesting from Ken Clark...
Why does it take so long for people like me to get out once we learn that the church is not what it advertises itself to be? Social Psychologists who study cognitive dissonance have a plausible answer. Over a half century of experiments, replicated in various countries around the world have confirmed the foundations of the theory. The greater the sacrifice we make, and the higher price one invests to join and maintain membership in a group (any group), the harder it is to come to grips with the fact that we may have made a horrible mistake. So we work overtime to self-justify; to convince ourselves that we didn't make a mistake. We need to feel good, worthy, smart, and moral. This drive is so strong that we wrestle to justify our bad decisions.
2 Tim 4:3 For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine.
2 Tim 4:4 They will turn their ears away from the truth & turn aside to myths
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